What turns a woman on? What are women attracted to?
According to the teachings of Dale Carnegie, we like those who like us.
But if you walk up to a girl and drool all over yourself, it’s not going to be enough.
But you already know this.
It’s also commonly known that girls go after guys who are busy going after their own success.
What’s this mean?
If you’re busy creating your own life, one that really fires up your burning desire, girls will follow.
If you just focus on building your life, and ignore girls altogether, they won’t exactly come knocking on your door at night begging for companionship.
And sure, if you ignore girls for as long as it takes to make your fortune, and then just kind of “show up” where girls are, they’ll flock to you like bees to honey.
But they’ll be after your fortune, and not you.
The trick is to balance them. It’s not easy, but it’s very powerful when done right.
The first step is to create some incredibly powerful and alluring goals. Things that you want to achieve. Things that you fully choose over anything and everything else in your life, except your health.
Given the choice of banging that HB10 or building your business, you’d choose to build your business.
But here’s the great paradox of seduction.
If you forego your business (or other goals) for that HB10, you’ll get neither.
When you make a girl (or girls) your number one choice in life, you lose all your attractiveness.
Most guys don’t get this.
But when you pursue your dreams first, and her second?
She won’t be able to leave you alone.
Keep this in mind when talking to girls. In the back of your mind, you should always have this thought:
“Yea, you’re hot. And Yea, I’d LOVE to hook up with. But if I don’t? No biggie. I’ve got big plans for my life. And they may or may not include you.”
Chase your life, and girls will follow.
To build in that unstoppable desire for success, and destroy all those limiting beliefs that have been holding you back until now, check this out: