Old School Truth
One of the best pieces of advice is an old one.
Generally attributed to Dale Carnegie, but this idea is very likely much older.
“You can get anybody to do anything so long as they believe it was their idea.”
Consider the structure of ancient humans.
Dudes competed to be the best hunters.
The best hunters got the most social validation and status from the tribe.
Which got them the most sexual opportunities.
So, even today, whenever dudes are together, they compete.
A hot young lady strolls into the area, and the competition gets much, much more intense.
Conversations become louder, laughter becomes more boisterous, put downs become more “vicious.”
This is the human nature of males.
To COMPETE for the attention and validation of females.
Not right, not wrong.
An ancient instinct.
What do women do, instinctively?
They are ninja level manipulators of men.
Now, that word, “manipulation” is generally a bad word.
But think of how this played out in ancient times.
For the dude, the goal was to get as much social status as possible.
To become the best killer possible.
But for the ladies, the goal was to get as much social status by PROXY as possible.
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So ancient ladies were DRIVEN by instincts to “manipulate” their dudes to become better killers.
This was NOT a selfish thing.
This was intended to benefit EVERYBODY.
But these ancient ladies, and the instincts of modern ladies, was to “manipulate” them in a very “Dale Carnegie” way.
So the dude believed it was HIS idea.
When dudes compete, it’s based on an idea contest.
A strategy contest.
My idea is better than your idea.
When ladies compete, it’s based on a “my man” contest.
When ladies go out to mingle, particularly in groups, they compete with one another.
But they compete by how much attention they can get from the men.
By how much attention they can get from HIGH STATUS men.
This same collection of instincts pushed humans to create EVERYTHING we have today.
Today, however, this “system” is pretty broken.
But the core instincts are still there.
The male drive to compete with other males to win the attention and affection of women is still running at full steam.
The female drive to compete with other females to win the attention and proxy-status of high status men is still running at full steam.
Luckily, there is a simple strategy to win.
Win the “idea contests” with other dudes.
Win “frame contests” with other dudes.
And BE the dude all the ladies are competing for.
Mind Persuasion has plenty of books and courses to teach you how to speak hypnotically and persuasively.