When it comes to meeting and creating attraction in girls, there’s a couple of concepts that are crucial to understand.
There’s what a girl says she wants, and what she responds to.
What she says she wants is based on her “public image,” as if she’s running for some kind of political office or something.
On the other hand, what she responds to is a representation of what she really wants.
It’s kind of like in the medical research field. Scientists long ago realized that if they relied on self-reporting, when it comes to the kind of food people eat, people always lie.
There’s the stuff they REALLY eat, and then there’s the stuff they say they eat.
Girls are the same way. What they say they want is based on how they imagine they’ll be judged by their peers.
What they REALLY want, and what they can’t help but respond to is based on hundreds of thousands of years of evolution.
If you’ve ever known a girl who was dating somebody she KNEW wasn’t “right” for her, but she couldn’t bring herself to leave him, this is why.
On a deep, primitive level, that guy turned her on, pushed her buttons, and made her feel those deep and unconscious feelings of desire that few women can resist.
Even though on a conscious level, she KNEW he was bad for her, her cave girl brain had effectively taken over.
Think of it this way. Imagine you’re starving. You haven’t eaten in a couple days. But you’re on a strict diet. You find yourself in the middle of an all-you-can-eat buffet, with all kinds of deep fried, salty fat. Smells delicious. Looks delicious. You’re starving.
Even though you KNOW consciously that the food isn’t good for you, you won’t likely be able to resist. One bite, and it’s all over.
The EXACT same thing goes with girls. When they are around somebody who pushes their primitive buttons, they won’t have much of a choice. Their desire for you will be so incredibly strong, they won’t get their mind off you until you’re together.
So, what’s the secret ingredient? How do you fire off these buttons? How do you get her thinking of you just like you can’t get your mind of those cheese fries when you’re starving?
Girls are hard wired to be attracted to guys who are chasing something in life BESIDES THEM.
Girls are hard wired from hundreds of thousands of years of evolution to chase after alpha cavemen that are on the HUNT. Not beta cave man who hang around the cave and help her do laundry.
Become a hunter. Chase your life, and all the girls you can handle will chase you.