Most guys have the absolute wrong attitude when it comes to creating attraction in hot girls.
To start off with, most guys don’t even think of it as “creating attraction.” They don’t think of it as “creating” anything.
Since creating something kind of implies you’ve got some sort of control of over something. Like creating a birdhouse, or creating a song, or creating a popular video on YouTube.
You have an idea of an outcome, you’ve got certain tools and skills, and you get to work. Along the way, you see how you’re doing, and adjust accordingly.
But when meeting girls, most guys don’t feel like they’re in control of anything. Pay attention to how your friends (and maybe even you) speak when describing past and future seductions.
It’s as if guys imagine walking into a club where EVERYBODY is there to pretty much hook up (despite how much girls will argue they’re there to just hang with their friends), and think that they’ve walked into the realm of the gods, and only by the luck of chance will they “get lucky.”
Imagine if you used this attitude when you went grocery shopping.
“I just got back from the grocery store.”
“Wow, how’d you do?”
“I approached a couple piles of apples, but I wasn’t in the right state. I did check the price on a box of cereal, though.”
“Damn dude, you’re the MAN!”
If we did this, we’d starve to death.
One of the most amazing things about the “reality” that we live in, which has been taught by gurus for centuries, is the world will largely respond to us based on the frame we carry.
If you act confident, people will respond accordingly. If you behave shyly, people will also behave accordingly.
If you walk into a club and act as if you need the kind favor of the gods, then you may or may not “get lucky.”
But if you walk into a club and see plenty of girls hoping to meet somebody like you, and talk to a few of them with an open and curious mind, amazing things will happen.
It helps out a lot if you know how to talk to them. Not how to impress them, like most other guys do, but how to elicit those wonderful feelings of attraction that we’re all after.
Then you’ll truly realize what’s waiting for you out there.
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