People naturally gravitate to other people.
We are not only pack animals, but we are hierarchical pack animals.
Self organizing hierarchical pack animals.
Everywhere you go, you see this.
Teams, companies, organizations, governments, militaries, households, even groups of friends.
It’s an interesting social experiment to do this.
To hang out and watch groups interact.
After a little bit, it’s pretty easy to see the dude in charge.
Or the couple dudes in charge.
On way is to watch a group of guys and girls, but NOT a group of guys and girls in relationships.
This may take a while to calibrate, but will be worth it.
Clear your mind and watch what happens when the different GUYS are talking.
Some guys, the ladies will look at him patiently and politely, but they are more or less waiting for him to finish.
He’ll make a point, and they’ll nod, but it will be a polite “Yeah I see what you’re saying” kind of nod.
But sometimes, in some groups, they’ll be a guy (or two) that when THEY talk, the girls (and sometimes the guys) look at him differently.
With less politeness and more genuine appreciation.
The laughter will be quicker and spontaneous.
The smiles will be wider, and more genuine.
More teeth, and the lips will be more engaged.
The question is, HOW can you BE that guy?
The one that people WANT to pay attention to?
The one they LIKE to pay attention to?
Not just enough to demonstrate politeness, but to get some genuine positive responses?
Not just from the ladies but from the guys.
Here’s a clue.
Most people walk the Earth with a “what should I do” mentality.
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Very few people walk the Earth with a feeling of ownership.
If you were having a party at your place, and you supplied all the food and entertainment, you would have a feeling of ownership.
You’d be pretty comfortable mingling with EVERYBODY and making sure everybody was having a good time.
If you saw a couple people hanging off to the side, not really interacting, you’d want to introduce yourself and make them feel at home.
Maybe introduce them to a couple of friends.
This is natural for most people in their own homes.
We feel comfortable being authority figures when we have home field advantage.
This is not a “might makes right” authority.
This is a feeling of taking care of everybody authority.
A very rare, but very attractive kind of authority.
What if you could feel this EVERYWHERE you went?
What would THAT do for you?
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