Theory And Reality
The first time anybody has sex, it’s never they way they’d hoped.
For many young people, once they realize some of their friends are getting some, they get desperate.
The first reason, for many, is to simply NOT be a virgin.
This sort of feels like you are lacking in the social skills area.
If you’re a guy, it feels like you are falling behind all the other guys, based on your skills.
If you’re a lady, it feels like you are falling behind all the other ladies, based on your desirability.
So for many, the very first sexual experience is JUST to have one.
It’s not an old school, romantic fantasy, like in the movies.
It’s usually a forgettable experience.
Better and Better
The next stage, at least theoretically, is to keep having better sex with better people.
And hopefully, before you get TOO old, you find somebody you want to stick with.
Humans are, after all, mostly monogamous.
So a best case scenario for most people is to find ONE person to share emotional and sexual intimacy with.
ONE person with whom you can have each other’s backs in the daily battle against the treacheries of human existence.
All of this is centered around SEX.
Sex and food are of critical importance.
You don’t eat, you die.
If you don’t have sex, you’re out of the gene pool.
Sex is the CORE of any relationship.
But not modern sex.
Not modern, hit it and quit it, smash and dash sex.
The GOOD kind of sex.
The kind of sex that is surrounded by deep and open communication.
Your real self.
Their real self.
This kind of sex is VERY rare today.
But the instinct that makes us CRAVE this kind of sex is very ancient.
This problem isn’t going to go away any time soon.
Our modern dumpster-fire clown-show society.
A train wreck of short term pleasures and worry about the consequences later.
But YOU can fix it.
YOU can fix how you view sex.
You can fix how you view your own sexual energy and sexual desires.
To feel them and accept them.
To allow your sexual energy to permeate your conversations.
So when you DECIDE to have sex with somebody, your presence alone will make it a very profound experience for them.
And when you have a few experiences of what it is like to GIVE somebody a profound sexual experience, it will change EVERYTHING.
Mind Persuasion has plenty of books and courses to teach you how to speak hypnotically and persuasively.