There are two ways to build outcome independence.
One way is old school.
For example, let’s say you decided to become outcome independent when you talked to gorgeous girls.
So you really DIDN’T care what happened during the conversation.
So you could playfully tease her, make jokes, be yourself, etc.
This would make her see you much differently than other guys.
Gorgeous girls see men as competing for her attention.
She sees guys like movie producers see hopeful actors.
They line up, wait for days and say things like:
I’ll do ANYTHING to be in this movie!
Please give me a chance!
This is why movie producers can get away with such sleazy behavior.
If you’ve got HUNDREDS of young ladies BEGGING you to be chosen, it would be hard to NOT ask for some “extras.”
Similarly, girls who only experience men the same way are kind of “sleazy” in their own way.
If you own a house, and you’d like to sell it, and you get HUNDREDS of offers within an hour, you can charge a VERY high price.
For hot ladies, they can “charge” a very high price for their attention.
Not necessarily money, but tons of guys swirling around her all begging for a chance.
This is WHY outcome independence is SO powerful.
Not only can you relax and be yourself, without TRYING to impress her, but it will drive her CRAZY.
Bounce At Any Time
The whole time she’s enjoying you, she’ll also be wondering to herself.
“Why isn’t this guy desperate like everybody else?”
So, back to the question, how do you BUILD this state?
The first way is the long way.
To talk to plenty of girls.
To get really good at talking to girls.
So you really DO have plenty of options.
So when you DO talk to any one girl, you really DON’T care if she gives you her number or not.
Because you already have so many numbers, you may not even REMEMBER to ask for hers.
This, of course, will subconsciously encourage her to close you.
Positive Love Cycles
Which will ACCELERATE this self-fulfilling outcome independence.
That’s the LONG way.
What’s the short way?
By doing some meditation practices.
A kind of “mindfulness” that change how you value her.
So even if you’ve never been laid before, you really WON’T care what happens during any conversation.
Even better, this meditation practice will let you look into ANYBODY’S eyes and drive them CRAZY.
Mind Persuasion has plenty of books and courses to teach you how to speak hypnotically and persuasively.