There’s an old saying:
“Women aren’t meant to be understood, they’re meant to be enjoyed.”
Do you believe that?
Most guys spend their time trying to find out how women “tick,” so they can come up with advanced techniques to “game” them.
But what if, instead of trying to “game” them with some kind of intention, you merely enjoyed them.
When talking to them, you didn’t worry about the outcome, or what she was going to say to this or that.
You just enjoyed them. You allow them to be themselves, and you felt comfortable to be yourself.
Not the nice guy that’s trying to “move her emotions,” just a confident guy, comfortable in his own skin.
See, if you have an intention, and that intention doesn’t come true, you feel let down. If you’re intention is to get her number, and you don’t get it, you feel as if you’ve failed.
But what if you have no intention, other to enjoy speaking with her, interacting with her, and whatever else comes?
If you’re openly enjoying her, she’s going to be feeling some enjoyment with you.
You know this.
Paradoxically, this will make getting her number a lot easier.
“Hey, I really enjoy talking to you. Give me your number so we can hook up later.”
You say this openly and honestly after a mutually enjoyable, and enjoyed conversation?
Easy as pie.
The best kind of pie!