Imagine this scenario.
You walk into a bar, and see a random mix of people.
Let’s say there are thirty people.
Some couples, some groups, some singles.
Guys, girls etc.
Now the money question.
How long would it take, whether you’re a lady or a dude, to sort and find the PRETTIEST girl?
Prettiest based ONLY on physical appearance, not on personality.
If you are a normal human, it would be very, very easy to do this.
Now what about the guys?
This is where it gets kind of difficult.
For one, guys MISTAKENLY believe girls sort for guys like guys sort for girls.
They absolutely do not.
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Ladies far more attracted to personality than looks.
Personality is things like frame, confidence, sense of humor, etc.
But one SHORTCUT in the sorting is relative hierarchy.
This is a bit complex.
But it’s like most of our other thinking.
Thinking is difficult.
It costs a lot of calories.
So our brains have evolved a ton of shortcuts.
And for the ladies sorting for attractive dudes one shortcut is hierarchy.
Where they dude is on the hierarchy.
But this ONLY works within a local situation.
You may be the boss of the boardroom, but if you step into a club and have a “deer in the headlights” look about you, you will not exhibit any kind of hierarchy traits.
What are some ways ladies sort for high hierarchy dudes?
And only through body language?
How other dudes treat you.
How they defer or not defer to you.
If you are the BOSS of a group conversation, or if you are merely a passive observer.
Your confidence, which drives your body language.
If you are talking to plenty of normal people or are only staring lustfully at the lady with the big boobs with an obvious boner.
And critically, whether OTHER LADIES are giving you sideways glances.
One very critical behavioral trait is whether you are the LEADER of the conversation, or the follower.
Ladies like leaders.
Followers, not so much.
How do you LEAD a conversation?
Make sure everybody participates.
Makes sure the conversational bullies get shut down.
Makes sure EVERYBODY is having a good time.
This is easy for some, difficult for others.
But it IS something you can learn.
Which means the more you practice, the better you get.
The bigger and bigger crowds in which you will be the OBVIOUS alpha that everybody wants.
Dudes will want to be LIKE you.
Ladies will WANT you.
Mind Persuasion has plenty of books and courses to teach you how to speak hypnotically and persuasively.