What goes through your mind when you see a pretty lady across the room?
(or a pretty dude)
If you are like any other normal human, two basic idea structures pop up.
One is you imagine all the things you’d like to do with them.
The best case scenario.
Your own private porno fantasy outcome.
The other is all the horrific things that might go wrong.
Getting publicly rejected is probably the biggest human fear.
Other than physical danger, like falling into the tiger pit at the zoo.
Why does getting rejected, or even the thought, sting so much?
Two huge reasons.
One we have a huge hypersensitivity to the opinions of others.
No matter how much we try and PRETEND we don’t care what people think, we do.
Sure, we CAN engineer our lives so we are only around people whose opinions we really don’t care about.
But it is a huge and inescapable instinct to be sensitive to the opinions of others.
This is a very, very ancient and necessary instinct.
If you did something that was dangerous to your tribe, everybody would look at you sideways.
That would make you feel HORRIBLE.
Which would train you to NOT do that dangerous thing.
On the other hand, if you did something that HELPED the tribe, they’d all give you positive looks and smiles.
That would train you to keep doing those things.
This social validation (positive and negative) instinct is as critical as hunger.
You can’t get rid of hunger.
You can’t get rid of your sensitivity to the opinions of others.
So walking across the room and getting rejected triggers ALL of our worst fears.
One is getting rejected from a pretty lady means no reproduction for you.
The end of you genes.
Thanks for playing!
Two is it happens in FRONT of everybody.
So everybody sees you getting rejected.
This is the absolute worse kind of social proof.
Everybody sees you getting rejected from the gene pool.
This is why simply muscling through this is unsustainable.
Sure, when you’re in a good mood for whatever reason, it can be done, from time to time.
But as a strategy?
However, those “circuits” in your brain are very ancient.
You see her and IMMEDIATELY all those primitive, social safety circuits are flashing a MAJOR warning.
But you can REWIRE those instincts.
So when you flirt with a pretty girl, those ancient fear instincts will be bypassed.
Kind of like when you have bypass surgery.
The re-route the blood around your clogged up heart artery.
A very common, hugely successful, surgery.
You can sort of do the same in your brain.
To put in some new brain circuitry AROUND the fear circuits.
This technique has a huge, added benefit.
Your conversational skills will go through the roof.
Best Of Both Worlds
Meaning not only will you feel CONFIDENCE instead of fear, but your conversational game will be WAY better than anything she’s ever heard before.
Mind Persuasion has plenty of books and courses to teach you how to speak hypnotically and persuasively.