There’s a famous technique from Covert Hypnosis called “utilization.” It’s very powerful, especially in the early stages of a seduction.
It basically says that you use whatever she says or does to further your success.
The way a typical pick up attempt works, for most guys, is like this. You’ve got a couple of good openers. You spot a cute girl and trade some eye contact.
You walk over, use one of your openers, and start a conversation. Then she says something that you don’t know how to respond to, and it’s like in the movies, where the music stops, everybody stops talking, looks at you, and all you can hear is the sound of a needle scratching across a record on a turntable.
And you’re like, “uh, well, I, uh, wow…”
So what do you do? If you’re smart, you’ll go home, and come up with some responses for whatever it is she said, so next time it comes up, you’ll have something to say.
But there’s a much better way. It requires a little faith in yourself. Kind of like when you’re talking to somebody, and you start a sentence and you don’t really know how you’re going to finish it, but you keep talking anyway.
Just take whatever she says, quickly agree with, and keep talking about whatever you were talking about.
The secret of language is that there are certain elements that will allow you speak in near gibberish, and still come across as if you were making total sense.
One of those elements is any kind of “cause – effect” language.
You can literally link any two elements using these and people’s mind will pretty much fade over. It’s like our brains are hard wired to take anything in that particular structure without argument.
For example, let’s say you’ve started a conversation with her, and you’re talking about the engine that you’re rebuilding in your ’65 Mustang.
Your halfway through a particular story, and she says:
“I don’t really like car guys.”
Now, this would kill most guys dead in their tracks. But not you.
Because you agree with her, add some kind of “cause-effect” language, and just keep on rolling.
“Oh, I totally agree. I hate car guys. That’s why as soon as I rebuild the carburetor, I’m going to redo the intake valves.”
Then of course, you can use the idea of cars to jump into any other topic.
“But what I really like to do is go on long drives, to secluded beaches where their aren’t any people.”
And just keep on flowing with the conversation.
Inside the language patterns of covert hypnosis, there’s plenty of ways to take a normal conversation, and turn it into a seductive masterpiece.
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