Buddha described the source of all pain a long time ago.
And that is expecting the world to be a certain way, and then finding out that it isn’t.
A lot of people are in pain today for that very same reason.
Based on the “should” frame.
A guy reads a bunch of social media posts that say women “should” be a certain way.
So he expects the world to be that way.
So he goes into the world, expecting it to be the way it “should” be, only to find out it isn’t.
Then he comes up the very common, angry response:
“I’ve been lied to! Poor me!”
This represents a complete misunderstanding of market dynamics.
Suppose you wanted to become a birdhouse tycoon.
So you built ten birdhouses.
While you were building them, you decided they “should” sell for $50 a pop.
But when you try and sell them, nobody buys them.
Nobody even stops to look at them, especially after they see the price.
Every LOVES to externalize our problems.
This USED to be a fantastic instinct.
To get ANGRY at the world.
This anger gave us a burst of energy to keep chasing animals to eat.
But today, “the world” is other people.
Every single person in the world is driven by their selfish instincts.
Nobody lives their lives based on what other people think they “should” do.
Not in the regular market place.
Not in the sexual market place.
The world IS the way it is.
The world will NEVER change to make life easier for you.
But once you get past any false ideas of should, that is the path to freedom.
Because once you start to understand the way the world IS, it’s much easier.
If you operate on the world based on how you THINK it should work, you’re going to get destroyed.
But if you blank all those “should” ideas from your brain, people are VERY simple.
Everybody has common fears and desires.
Most everybody (about 90%) or so don’t like to think for themselves.
Most everybody (that same 90%) have ideas they copied from somebody else.
Most people are HARD WIRED to copy ideas from others.
But most of these ideas kind of like junk food.
They feel good, but they don’t help anybody.
This is where YOU come in.
And talk to them just long enough to find out their fears and desires.
This is really, really easy.
Then YOU can give them ideas they’ll like MUCH MORE than those lame ideas they’ve copied from TV or social media.
This will make YOU the authority over their lives.
Mind Persuasion has plenty of books and courses to teach you how to speak hypnotically and persuasively.