I’ve been doing a little experimentation lately, and I’m having a lot of fun.
Say you’re walking down the street, and you see a cutie you’d like to meet, or at least flirt with.
What do you do?
Play it cool? Smile slyly? Wait for a couple of IOI’s
There’s a lot going on in your brain when this happens, and it all happens in less than a second.
Which means it all really happens before your conscious mind really knows what’s going on.
You see her, you imagine the best case scenario, then you imagine the worst case scenario, then you scan your memory banks for any similar situations, on clues how to respond.
Then your subconscious delivers a desire and a “feeling” to your conscious, which you describe as “seeing this hot girl.”
It’s important to note that the “perception of desire” and all the associated feelings come at the same time. Which can obviously lead to anxiety if you think about interacting in any way.
One trick is to let that initial attraction literally EXPLODE in the forefront of your mind, crowding out all those other conflicting emotions.
And let it clearly show on your face as well.
Now, this is going to feel pretty goofy and awkward, but you’ll get some AMAZING responses.
Next time you see a cute girl, instead of shielding your emotions, let your desire and appreciation out completely, and make it clear on your face.
Eyes wide, big smile, and even a silent “Wow!” on your lips.
Then make eye contact, hold it, and hold your smile.
And see what happens.
Unless she’s a super model or porn star who’s having guys consistently slobber all over her as a matter of course, she’ll likely be taken aback.
In a GOOD way.
Now, while you can have some fun with this, you do need to take action after you get that good reaction from her. You’ve quickly got to establish your authority, lack of neediness, and non-attached disinterest.
But once you set the stage, and give her a quick burst of overwhelmingly pure attraction and appreciation, (like she’s never felt before) she’ll literally be begging for more.
So when you pull back, so to speak, she’ll be sure to follow.
Of course, when you talk to her it helps to have the right words.
The words that will send her emotions to even more wonderful places.
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