I used to be friends with this girl who was a kindergarten teacher.
Some of funniest stories I’d ever had.
She told me one thing in thing in particular, when you tell kids what to do, they don’t listen.
You stand there and lecture till your blue in the face, and they’ll ignore you.
But if you do something, and look like you’re having fun, they’ll follow you.
She learned that no matter what she wanted to teach them, all she had to do was do it, enjoy herself, and they’d copy her. She didn’t even need to explain what she was doing or anything.
Now, this doesn’t stop at kindergarten.
But most of us are too much up in our heads to realize this.
If you walk through the world, always looking to others for clues on what to do, how to act, what to say, you’re going to get lost in the shuffle.
But if you do what you want, and enjoy yourself, people will take notice.
Think of a couple of examples from your own past as proof.
One where you walked into the club, unsure of yourself, always looking for IOI or some other green lights to approach. Maybe you had a bit of success.
But when you think of those other times, when you weren’t even interested in girls. Just having fun with your boys, doing what you wanted. You were doing what you wanted. Looking forward.
And people followed.
Not just the people you were with, but people you weren’t expecting.
I’m sure you can think of several examples of this in your past.
If you’d like to fire up your intention so you can carry that strong frame around you wherever you go, consider this:
It will install within you a strong frame of creation. One that girls find irresistible.
This is something most “normal” guys don’t even consider.