There’s a common mistake that many, many guys make.
They wait too long for obvious green lights.
Sure, it’s a horrible feeling to get shot down, rejected, sent home packing.
So in order to protect ourselves, we wait and make sure that we aren’t going to get rejected before we take any kind of action.
Like approaching her, kissing her, etc.
The problem is that by the time she’s giving us obvious signals, it’s too late.
This is one area where guys and girls have completely different communication styles.
Here’s some scientific proof. They had moms and dads look at pictures of their own children.
They were pictures of the kids experiencing a whole range of emotions.
When describing the emotions, the women were all over the place.
The men? They only said “happy,” or “sad.”
To say that men are generally clueless when reading body language and facial expressions would be a huge understatement.
Many guys go out with their female friends, and later the friend tells the guy that other girls were literally throwing themselves at him, but he didn’t have a clue.
Girls can walk into a room and quickly and almost subconsciously know exactly what’s going on between all the couples. Who’s happy, who’s not.
Guys? We just walk in and notice who’s hot and who’s not.
The good news is that you don’t have to become a Jedi Ninja of body language to know when to escalate.
You just need to take some very small risks, and see how she responds.
For example, if you are thinking of kissing her, lean in slightly. If she pulls back, you pull back. If she doesn’t pull back, and doesn’t break eye contact, you’re in like Flynn.
Girls can look and instantly measure a guy’s emotions.
Guys don’t have it so lucky. We’ve always got to test. But if you test in an appropriate way, her response will tell you everything you need to know.
The green lights are there, you’ve just go to do a little bit of work to see them. If you wait around too long, they’ll be discovered by some other guy.
In order to significantly increase your chances, there’s a certain “language technology” that will help you to fire up her emotions so you’re small “tests” will almost certainly come back positive, if you catch my drift.
Putting you in a class all of your own.
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