One of the most powerful techniques of persuasion, any kind of persuasion, is rapport.
Otherwise, you may give up.
This goes double for seduction and sexual persuasion.
Salespeople and copywriters have known this for a long, long time. But some guys shoot themselves in the foot before they even open their mouths.
Think of everybody walking around through reality as if they’re in some kind of bubble. This bubble represents the things they are thinking about, the things they are observing, and they way the perceive what’s going on around them.
Think of everybody’s individual “bubble’ as having it’s own frequency. When you are really “feeling” a connection with somebody, male or female, it’s kind of like you’re on the same frequency.
The stuff you are thinking about, remembering, and perceiving about the world around you is very similar to the person you are talking to.
When girls meet a guy they just “click” with, and feel that really strong deep connection, it’s because they are in very deep, unconscious rapport.
Unless you create rapport, either on purpose, or on accident, you ain’t getting much.
Now, most guys don’t even know about this stuff. They see her talking to certain guys, and not others, and assume she’s got a “type.”
Sort of, but not really. Since most guys don’t understand the idea of “rapport,” they just walk up, start talking to her, and hope for the best.
So the only guys she feels connected to enough to keep talking to are guys that she automatically feels a sense of rapport with. A sense of rapport that was created on accident.
Clearly, guys with a similar look, and a similar background are going to be much more likely to trigger this “accidental rapport,” giving off the impression that she only goes for a certain “type.”
The truth is that ANY GUY can be “her type,” so long as he knows how to create rapport.
How do you create rapport? Just take some time before you approach, and imagine what her “model of the world” is. Hold off on imposing YOUR model of the world on her, slowly easy into HER model of the world first.
Then when that “connection” is established, you can start running game on her, with MUCH more success.
This will confound not only her, but her friends as well. She’ll think something along the lines of “He’s not even my type, but I can’t stop thinking about him. It MUST be true love!”
Because is so powerful, you MUST be careful.
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