DHV, the holy grail of seduction, right? Well, here’s a way to take it to the next level.
When most guys think in terms of this, they think along the lines of “impressing” her.
As if she’s got this mental clipboard in her head and is going to check off different variables of all the guys she’s talked to, and the winner gets her number.
If you asked the average Joe on the street how to impress a girl, you’d get some pretty common answers:
“Show off your wealth.”
“Use creative negs.”
“Use push pull.”
And the list goes on and on.
Don’t get me wrong, these can work very well. In fact, you may have been quite successful using these techniques in the past. I know I have.
But there’s a much easier way to “demonstrate high value.”
But just that label is kind of a misnomer. It sounds as if she’s got a mental picture of what “high value” means, and she’s going to consciously know it when she sees it.
Like looking for a specific exit on the freeway.
“Aha! There it is!”
Course, you know it doesn’t exactly work that way.
The most effective way is to hit her buttons on an unconscious level. So she’ll have no choice but to become attracted.
How do you do that?
Speak to her, about whatever gets her juices going, using structure language.
Talk about her internal processes instead of external “things.”
Talking about “things” is like showing her a picture. She’ll look at it for a second and think, “wow, that’s cute,” and then lose interest.
Talking to her about her own emotions using process language is like showing her one of those 3D pictures, embedded on noise. One she’ll have to focus on for a while. Only it keeps changing.
With the right structure, she’ll feel like you’re holding up a mirror to her most treasured emotions.
One that will transfix her.