Most girls love the idea of being chased.
I mean, not by some crazy dude with a hatchet, but by some guy she wants chasing her.
And most guys are hard wired to chase.
There’s a reason for this.
Most of our behaviors are run by instincts, despite how much we think we’re logical and conscious.
Nowhere is this more evident than in sexual relationships.
When you’re attracted to a girl, and she’s attracted to you, there’s nothing conscious about it.
For the longest part of human history, we lived in small tribes of 200 to 300 people. So if a girl chose the wrong guy, she was pretty much done for life. She just couldn’t amble on down to the next prehistoric nightclub.
So girls are hard wired, on a genetic level, to not give it up so easily.
Back in the caveman days, if a girl played really hard to get, only the most worth cave dudes would bag her.
That would meant that he’d be much more likely to stick around and help raise the kids.
If she gave it up to every guy who made eye contact with her and smiled, she’d have tons of little cave kids from tons of different cave dudes.
And since they didn’t have any welfare back then for single moms, most of those little cave dudes would starve to death. Or even get left behind.
Now, why would a guy show interest in a girl and NOT chase her?
The only conclusion her cave girl brain can come up with is that he’s got plenty of other cave girls to choose from.
If a guy hasn’t been laid in years, resisting some kind eye contact from a hottie is like a dry alcoholic gargle some whiskey and not swallow it.
That’s why building up your “not chasing” muscle is crucial.
See, most guys want to practice approaching, or practice number closing. But if they’re desperate for sex, they’re never going to put out those subconscious signals that they’re always sending out.
Even you reek of sexual desperation, no amount of “game” can cover it up.
It would be like putting a really expensive shirt over some horrible B.O.
How do you do this? Practice interacting with girls, looking for, and showing signs of interest.
But specifically NOT doing anything that signifies a close. Don’t ask for names, or numbers, or try and drag the conversation longer that you should.
Just practice interacting with cute girls WITHOUT closing.
This will slowly squelch your “sexual desperation” vibe, and slowly build up you “I’ve got plenty of other options” vibe.
Making you more attractive than ever.
This is just one way to leverage the ancient triggers of the human mind to your advantage.
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