Sometimes breaking the ice with a girl is the toughest part.
Largely, because your brain is swirling with all kinds of conflicting messages, maybe she’ll be awesome in bed, or maybe she’ll throw a drink in your face.
Naturally, the more experience you have with something, the easier it gets. To be sure, if you force yourself to open a hundred girls a week, just as practice, opening girls for real would be a lot easier.
But not many guys are ready to head out and start opening girls right and left.
So here’s a much easier alternative.
The trick is to say something that will grab her attention, but is absolutely rejection proof.
It’s important to grab her attention so you get enough experience talking to cute girls and realize that they’re humans just like you, not some kind of super goddess capable of heavenly powers.
But you want to get that experience without opening yourself up to possible rejection. Just enough to experience some interaction.
You want to say something that she’ll have to think about, but not something that can be percieved as a compliment in any way. You’ll find that this is a lot of fun.
Most of the time, when a strange guy says something to a girl, she’s going to interpret it as some kind of pickup or compliment, so she’ll already feel programmed to either brush you off, or say “thank you” in some regard.
Which is why this will get her mind spinning.
How do you do it?
You make an observation about her behavior or something she is wearing. It MUST be a neutral observation, not a sneaky compliment or anything.
Like, “Hey, that watch is round.”
Or “Wow, your skirt is blue.”
Or “Those are pink shoes.”
Now, why in the world would you say such goofy things? One is she’ll stop and think. She’ll feel like she “should” say thank you, as it’s structured like a compliment, but it’s not really a compliment.
She can’t reject you, because you’re not asking for anything or trying to get her to respond.
You’re just saying something completely neutral, and seeing what she ways. Anything she says is fine.
You’ll be building up a lot of experience of interacting with cute girls, and getting a normal response.
Do this enough, and pretty soon opening up cute girls will feel just like talking to normal people, which it is.