Getting past that first conversation is pretty difficult. Approaching, opening, building rapport can be the toughest part for most guys.
However, once you get past that, it’s not smooth sailing. At least not all the time.
Everybody’s different, and everybody’s got their own idea of how fast or slow they want to go.
If you move to fast, you risk turning her off, and putting yourself in the category of “guys who only want THAT.”
If you move too slow, you risk missing your opportunity. Unless she’s had her heart set on you for ages, she won’t likely be willing to wait for you to build up enough confidence to make a move.
To make matters even worse, the best case scenario is that it just “happen.”
Meaning that one minute your sitting there on the couch, and the next minute you’re making out like high school kids.
Of course, one way to make it “just happen” is to get in as many situations as you can, and hope that something “just happens.”
But you might be waiting a long time.
However, there’s an easier way. A way you can kind of engineer those events that “just happen.”
How?
Slow, steady, and conscious kino escalation. If you’re unsure if you should kiss her or not, put your hand on her knee, for example, just a little bit longer than normal.
See how she responds.
If she turns toward you, you’re in good shape, do more.
If she tightens up, and slightly closes off her body language, back up a bit, so to speak, and keep it light hearted.
The reason a “kiss close” seems so dramatic is that going from sitting there talking on the couch to kissing her can seem like a huge step.
But when you make some slight kino escalations, and judge how she responds, you’ll get all the green lights you need.
If you need to “warm her up” a bit more, so to speak, and create more attraction, just keep talking to her the right way.
By using language patterns that are specifically designed to get her thinking in the specific ideas, emotions and feelings that are most important to her.
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