Most people know that women are better body language readers than men.
It’s also understood that this is because of our ancient, harsh world of hunter gathers.
Men were bigger, and their job was to get out and kill stuff.
Women’s jobs was to gather, while taking care of the kids.
Since women were much weaker physically, they had to be able to expert “manipulators.”
This isn’t always a bad thing.
In modern times, manipulation is used as a negative thing.
But in the past, women had to INFLUENCE men.
But not with direct words.
If you have some huge cave dude who just single handedly killed a buffalo, he doesn’t NEED anything BUT his words.
Admiration and Love
But not for the reason most people imagine.
This buffalo killer has already provided food to tons of people.
So all he would need to do is say:
“Hey, go find some more wood for the fire,” and a few people would JUMP up.
Not because he was an advanced killer.
But because he naturally demanded natural respect.
Women had neither size nor a history of providing massive numbers of calories.
So they had to finesse people.
To use a lot of covert technology.
And cave women finessing men is like a modern therapist using conversational hypnosis.
Rules Of Finesse
Half the task is being able to READ body language like a ninja.
So women, and highly skilled therapists need to ALWAYS and ACCURATELY read the “state” of their target.
For women, then and now, this is AUTOMATIC.
Trying to get a woman to consciously understand her natural body language reading ninja skills would be like trying to get a fish to consciously understand water.
So here’s a mind experiment.
Imagine you lived on Kangaroo planet.
Only humans, kangaroos, and a few plants.
And the ONLY way to kill a kangaroo would be to box him.
And suppose, in this silly metaphor, each year the tribe had to choose ONE boxer to be the boxer of the tribe.
So, each spring, all the men would leave for a few weeks.
They’d go into a different valley and have a round robin boxing tournament.
And they would stay there long enough so all their bruises and cuts would heal.
Now the money question.
All the men come walking back.
Let’s say there are fifteen men.
One guy KNOWS he’s the champ.
All the other guys KNOW he’s the champ.
Would the women need to ask who the champ was?
Or would they just know?
By looking and sorting for the winner by how he was perceived by OTHER MEN?
This, of course, is a metaphor for how women KNOW who is alpha and who is only pretending.
Alphas are recognized by men first.
THEN the women look into the group of men to find the ONE alpha among all the men.
Today, “real” ancient instinctive alphas are few and far between.
But that is good news.
Because there is little competition.
Which makes it easier than ever to BE the alpha.
Mind Persuasion has plenty of books and courses to teach you how to speak hypnotically and persuasively.