One of the most critical rules of writing an interesting script or story is to show, don’t tell.
We humans like to discover things on our own.
We don’t like being spoon fed ideas.
Stories with well written characters that slowly evolve over time and only reveal JUST ENOUGH are the characters we like.
We like to do the mental work of trying to get to know the characters.
Characters that DON’T do this are two-dimension.
They are interesting, but not engaging.
The way the character acts, the way they respond to things, the slow little details that are shown slowly reveal who they really are.
This is true in interpersonal relationships.
For example, consider a guy who is desperate to be accepted.
They say a whole bunch of stuff about themselves.
Try to tell a bunch of stories about their past escapades that will hopefully “build value.”
Even worse are guys who try very hard to look good.
It’s hard to differentiate this today because most hookups happen online.
When you HAVE to be two dimensional.
But in real life, people still like to find out about each other.
The whole purpose of dating for a while is to see how the other person is in their natural habitat.
Are they nice to strangers?
Do they have a good sense of humor?
How do they respond to stress?
How do they respond when somebody cuts in front of them in traffic?
What happens when the waiter gets their order wrong?
All of these give clues to their personality.
But there is a kind of meta personality trait that is VERY attractive.
Not in itself, but what it presupposes.
This is actually a combination of traits.
One is they can easily talk to anybody.
Super gorgeous people.
Not so gorgeous people.
But more importantly, when they talk to gorgeous people, they have ZERO neediness.
They are not trying in the least to impress the gorgeous person.
What does this say about you?
Or rather, what does this presuppose about you?
That you have zero problems meeting people.
That you enjoy being yourself.
That you enjoy other people no matter WHO they are.
That even gorgeous people are no big deal.
Since you can meet them any time, anywhere.
Think of it this way.
Enjoy The Moment
Most people worry about looks and fake status because of what it can GET them.
But when you honestly don’t care about the outcome, this presupposes you have ZERO problems getting what all the other goofs are chasing.
And they, whoever they are, will wonder WHY this is about you.
Which will make them even MORE attracted to you.
Whoever they are.
Mind Persuasion has plenty of books and courses to teach you how to speak hypnotically and persuasively.