The mind hates unfinished business, and you can use that to your advantage when out talking to the ladies.
Script writers, movie producers and advertisers and even waiters and waitresses have known for years that when you create something called an “open loop,” people will hang on with rapt attention until the loop is closed.
Cliffhangers on TV, advertisements that leave the viewer hanging, and even studies done on wait staff and their short term memories have shown this to be true.
For example, when a waiter or waitress has five or six tables that are “in progress,” they know everything about those tables. Special orders, progress, etc. However, once those tables are “closed out” that information vanishes.
How can you use this?
Whenever talking to a girl, ALWAYS leave some open loops. This will literally FORCE unconscious to pay attention to you, as she’ll have that deeply programmed desire to find out how it ends.
And anytime a girl is subconsciously driven to pay attention to you, for ANY reason, it spells massive attraction.
So, how specifically do you do this? Simply start telling stories, any stories, and then switch to another story halfway through.
The stories can be about anything. How you found some change in your couch, how you accidentally bought the wrong burrito at lunch, whatever.
The important thing is to make it seem like you’re leading up to a big finish (whatever “big finish” fits the story in question) and then just start another story.
Do three or four of these within a conversation, and her unconscious will be SCREAMING at her to NEVER let you out of her sight.
This works just as well with texts, but you’ve to be a lot more efficient. Meaning you can’t text some forty five page story.
Just come up with a “half statement” that will leave her guessing. Then DON’T text her for AT LEAST 24 hours. She WON’T be able to get you out of her mind!
When you realize just how powerful your language is, either in person, or through text messages, you’ll be BLOWN AWAY how easy it can be.
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