Secrets Of Attraction
If you take a balloon you can rub it against something to create static electricity.
You can do tricks like getting it to stick to a wall, making your hair stand up.
Once my friends and I were hiking.
We came to a campsite and as soon as we’d set up our tents, the deer came out.
Just standing there, staring at us.
Clearly, they’ve been “trained” that “humans = free food.”
So when they saw/heard/smelled humans, their instincts gave them a “good” feeling.
A good feeling that made them move toward us, and hang around.
It’s a very good piece of advice to not be the rebound guy or girl.
Hard To See Up Front
Usually, it goes like this.
You’re a guy and you meet a girl.
And you’re just kind of “being yourself.”
And it seems very, very easy.
As if you’re a perfect fit.
As if you’re made for each other.
But then it crashes and burns after a couple of weeks.
Why’d She Do That?
In this example, the girl had recently been devastated.
So she her self esteem took a big hit.
And she needs validation.
And she saw the guy, and because she was “needy” or had a much stronger relationship “binding potential” than normal, it was an easy hookup.
But from the guy’s perspective, it was an ideal situation.
But it was based on a “non-normal” personality state.
People often misunderstand this “rebound effect” as being consciously manipulative.
Not Conscious Manipulation
But it’s not any more “conscious” than the deer looking for free food.
When somebody gets dumped, that creates a TON of negative feelings.
Negative feelings and self doubt.
Negative feelings that NEED to get gotten rid of.
And a quick hook up is JUST what the doctor ordered.
These are generally bad situations.
Situations that are often regretted.
But these all do have the same structure.
All Attraction Is Similar
Balloons, deer, and rebounders.
A much stronger than average “binding capacity.”
Balloons don’t normally stick to the walls.
But if you understand the science, you can make them stick.
Deer don’t normally approach humans, unless they’ve been “accidentally trained” to.
Most guys and girls don’t get into relationships as quickly as they do under the “rebound scenario.”
Now the rebound scenario is a special case.
From a purely “mathematical” scenario, they have a lot of NEGATIVE emotions.
Negative emotions they want to get rid of.
And they get rid of them by sexual and emotional validation.
But you can also purposely build up POSITIVE emotions.
And since they’ll associate those positive emotions with you, or whatever you were talking about, this will have the same effect.
They’ll WANT to move closer to you, emotionally.
Not because they want to get RID of something.
Because they want to get MORE of something.
That something, of course, is YOU.
Mind Persuasion has plenty of books and courses to teach you how to speak hypnotically and persuasively.