If you were checking out some cute girl somewhere, and she read your mind, what would happen?
If you are like most guys, you probably imagine that she’s run screaming for the nearest door, or call the cops or something.
After all, if you ARE like most guys, when you’re checking out that cutie at the supermarket, coffee shop or at the club, you’re likely thinking, at least in part, how much you’d LOVE to take her somewhere and bang her silly.
This is completely natural, and it’s been programmed into every male brain since the dawn of time.
You’re not crazy, you’re not a pervert, you’re certainly not a sexual predator. You’re just a normal male who enjoys entertaining sexual thoughts about cute girls pretty much everywhere you go.
Now, does this mean you should up to her and say what’s on your mind?
“Hey, I don’t mean to interrupt you, but I just wanted to tell you that I’d LOVE to take you to the nearest hotel and make sweet love to you until you are absolutely exhausted!”
I’m not sure this would be the best pick up line in the world.
But the reason why isn’t what most guys think.
If she does call the cops, it won’t be because of the content. I know this is hard to swallow.
But she’s a human, just like you. She’s got urges. Just like you. And for most of her life, those urges go unsatisfied, just like yours.
So why would she call the cops?
It’s not the CONTENT of your pickup line, it’s your JUDGMENT of your own pickup line.
When most guys talk to girls, they are afraid, nervous and worried they are going to be “called out.”
So if she DOES reject you, she’s not really rejecting the CONTENT of your pickup. She’s rejecting YOUR OPINION of your OWN pickup.
This is kind of a mind bend for a lot of guys. But human interaction is much, much more than the content of your language.
It’s based largely on a HUGE amount of non-verbal body language, facial expressions and voice tone, that say much, much more than any amount of words EVER could.
In reality, your content (the specific words you use) are the least important.
If you’re body language is screaming nervousness, uncertainty, shyness, awkwardness, then no matter WHAT your content is, she’s going to run screaming for the hills.
Likewise, if your body language, facial expressions, and tonality are screaming confidence, self acceptance, and self appreciation, she’ll be attracted to you no matter WHAT you say.
That’s why taking a good hard look at your own intentions and desires, and accepting them as normal and natural, will go a long, long way in getting you all the female attention and attraction you want.
That’s why these language patterns are incredibly helpful. Not only will they help you talk to her with incredible persuasiveness, but they’ll also help you to destroy any limiting beliefs you’ve got about yourself, and what you’d like.
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