Plenty of studies indicate that we humans always from into hierarchies.
They take a group of ten people, and give them a task.
To complete the task, they form into a hierarchy.
Usually quickly and subconsciously.
How do they do that?
Consider this idea.
Everybody looks at the task.
Everybody gets a feeling between 1-10 on the “I got this scale.”
The naturally chosen leaders have a very strong, very congruent, “This? Easy. I got this.”
Everybody else has less than ten.
Here’s the thing most people miss when thinking about things like hierarchies and alpha status.
On TV, the fight for alpha is always long, drawn out, etc.
But in real life?
The alpha feels comfortable being alpha.
Number 2 feels comfortable being number 2.
The guy down at number 10 feels comfortable being a 10.
Everybody choose their own roles.
This is contextual to the problem.
This is contextual to all other people.
They take all the top guys, put them in their own group.
Give them a task, and again, those previously top guys from a hierarchy.
This means the guy that was the alpha in the previous situation, with the previous people, feels comfortable in the number ten spot with these new people and the new task.
This makes PERFECT SENSE from a ancient tribal standpoint.
Any tribe that was rigid in its hierarchy wouldn’t do so well.
A much more flexible tribe would do much, much better.
Each hierarchy would be DIFFERENT based on the task.
Fighting enemies, killing certain animals, etc.
Ancient alpha status is based on the context, since the people were always the same.
But today, there IS no context.
All our instincts were calibrated under severe constraints.
Food, sex, safety, were all HARD to get.
Today, there are NO constraints.
And because our ninja brains are so good at self deception, everybody can PRETEND they are alpha.
Back them, hierarchy was based on PERFORMANCE.
You always had to demonstrate that you could PRODUCE.
Calories produced, tracking skills, keeping enemies from getting close to your people.
Everything was EVIDENCE based.
Today, everything is fake.
Even our money is fake.
Wealth doesn’t mean squat today.
Some guy wearing $10K could be severely in debt, or working for a company with zero profits and billions in debt.
The ONLY thing that is real is your frame, and your behavior.
That REAL feeling of “I’ve got this.”
This is something that you can practice in many, many ways.
To create a meta feeling of “I’ve got this,” in as many situations as you can.
In world with fake money, fake alphas, fake everything, this “I’ve got this,” feeling is very, very rare.
It is this “I’ve got this” feeling that everybody looks for.
Men, women, everybody.
That feeling that drives outer, irresistibly attractive, behavior.
Mind Persuasion has plenty of books and courses to teach you how to speak hypnotically and persuasively.