Most guys, when walking up to cute girls, have a couple of different ideas competing for the front seat of their mind.
One is that everything goes well, and the girl is into him.
The other is that the girl is absolutely disgusted by him, slaps him, kicks him in the nuts, then dumps her drink on him as he’s lying on the floor in pain.
Obviously, having these two mindsets will create anxiety and tension. And even more obviously, being anxious and tense is no way to pick up girls.
Here’s a different angle. Keep in mind that you’ll need to FORCE your brain to think of this, as the previous two mind frames are hard wired in on a deep level.
So, what’s the angle?
Next time you’re in a place with a lot of cute girls, take a look around. Before you fixate on any one girl, look at them in the aggregate. They all are built the same way. They all have the same instincts to reproduce. They all have the capability to be turned on sexually by the right combination of words, expressions, and energy.
The problem with seduction, for us guys is that we assume she’s attracted to us like we are attracted to her. By her looks, and right off the bat.
Sure, if a girl walks up and introduces herself to you, you’ll know within about three microseconds if you’re into her or not.
I she hot? Check.
Does she speak English? Check. (although this one is optional)
Is she NOT emanating any foul body odors? Check.
Does she NOT have a gun to your head? Check.
For guys, that’s pretty much it. We are attracted largely on looks. Girls, not so much. They need conversation, they need personality, they need character.
They find these in a guy, it doesn’t really matter WHAT he looks like.
Anyhow, back to the treasure hunting frame.
So there you are, looking at all the girls. You’ve realized they ALL have a set of buttons, that when pushed in the right order, will turn them on sexually. Whether they want to be or not.
All you’ve got to do is find out what they are.
This kind of takes YOU out of the equation. Instead of walking up and hoping that YOU are “accepted,” it doesn’t really matter who you are. All that matters is you find out how to push her buttons, and in what order.
With this attitude, it’s IMPOSSIBLE to get rejected, since your not trying to get accepted.
What will make it happen even faster is when you use these mind bending language patterns. She won’t know what hit her.