If you ever spend time on any kind of seduction or “pick up” message boards, you know that the move “Fight Club” is always referenced.
Now, many guys think this is because those guys are “badass” and by fighting each other in underground clubs, they become more “alpha,” or that the movie has some kind of “message” about how to reclaim your manhood or something.
All of these are true, and the movie does have some healthy messages (so long as you don’t take the movie literally), but when it comes to face to face interactions with girls, the biggest method is the number one rule of Fight Club.
Never Talk About Fight Club.
This is also the number one rule of covert persuasion, and sales.
Even Dale Carnegie (The Win Friends and Influence People guy) knew this, long, long before NLP or seduction or even Covert Persuasion and Hypnosis was even invented.
One of his main principles was this:
The BEST way to get somebody to do something, is convince them that it was THEIR idea.
Meaning you structure the conversation in a way that THEY come up with the idea that YOU want them to.
If you can do this as a salesperson, you can make a TON of money.
If you can do this as a seducer of women (or a seducer of a particular woman) you can get a LOT of love.
After all, if it’s clear that YOU’RE chasing HER, you kind of give up a lot of your power. But if SHE thinks she’s chasing YOU, then you’ll be in a VERY good position.
Which is why when talking to girls, you should always keep the first rule of Fight Club in mind.
If you’re being too obvious that you’re trying to pick her up, by throwing goofy lines, or running some kind of memorized patterns, she’ll know it.
On the other hand, if you’re talking to her and projecting the vibe of, “Hey you’re really cute, I like talking to you, I certainly like looking at you, but you’re not the only girl in town. No disrespect, but there’s plenty of other girls, AND plenty of other things in LIFE that are important to me. But as long we’re both standing here, we may as well enjoy each other’s company.”
NOTICE: The above is your VIBE, nothing you say out loud.
When she senses this in you, that you are a confident guy who’s not needy, this will turbo charge her attraction for you, and make her chase you.
Meaning she’ll be the one texting you a billion times a day, and double checking to make sure you’re still “on” for your next “date.”
The BEST way to create this attitude is to truly HAVE something in your life, that you truly want, BESIDES girls. Something that you ARE chasing. Like massive wealth, or a fantastic career, or some wicked programming skills, ANYTHING.
Because when you chase your life, girls WILL chase you.