A long time ago, a friend taught me how to surf.
I was always more into body surfing than board surfing.
Anyway, we went out one day and he taught the basics.
You need to see the waves coming in and choose the right one.
You had to be able to kind of read the other surfers so two people didn’t jump on the same wave.
Very much like stock investing, you need to know just when to get in (or on) and when to get out (or off).
This is something that requires a lot of practice.
More practice than simply a bunch of written or spoken advice.
Any kind of written or spoken advice will continue to take on new meaning while you get more experience.
This is what’s missing from a lot of people today.
The idea that you can be told exactly what to do, and then go out and get instant success.
Even being able to bake a relatively simple cake from a recipe takes plenty of practice.
If it were easy to simply copy and paste a recipe, everybody would be a master chef.
But plenty of people today claim that simply “cannot cook.”
It’s not that they can’t cook, it’s that they are unwilling to learn.
Now imagine any kind of social skills.
Sales, public speaking, acting make friends, persuasion, seduction, etc.
This is much harder to learn than baking a cake.
Cake ingredients aren’t self aware.
They do whatever they are supposed to based on the laws of science.
But simply having a conversation involves way more variables than anybody can count.
This is far, far more complicated than going off a set of instructions.
The necessity for practice and experience is far more important.
But there are ways you can make it far easier, or far more difficult.
If you are all up in your head, focusing ONLY on the words, you’ll miss nearly everything.
But if you are OUT of your head and hyper focused on the emotional energy flowing back and forth, you’ll have a much easier time.
This would be like a five year old human swinging on a swing set vs. programming a robot how to do the same thing.
If you’re open to the natural flow of communication, everything will be much, much easier.
You’ll get more sales than others.
You’ll get more smiles than others.
You’ll make more friends than others.
And you’ll get more action than others.
They’ll think you’re just naturally “lucky.”
But to you, it will feel completely normal.
Mind Persuasion has plenty of books and courses to teach you how to speak hypnotically and persuasively.