They say you can lead a horse to water but you can’t make him drink.
A pretty common statement with a pretty easy meaning.
A horse will only drink if he wants to.
If he is thirsty.
You can present a product to somebody, but you can’t make them buy.
They’ll only buy if they want to.
You present yourself to the object of your affection, but you can’t make them feel a reciprocal amount of affection.
They will only “like you” if THEIR emotions make it so.
This has been a problem since the dawn of time.
Everybody would love to have super powers of “desire control” over others.
If you could MAKE PEOPLE want things, you could sell a lot of stuff and make a lot of money.
If you had this power, you’d get elected in every election.
One of the biggest manipulators of all time tried to do this.
Edward Bernays, the cousin of Freud, essentially “invented” the idea of marketing.
Of using all kinds of large scale techniques to get people to buy things they don’t really need.
Big Scale Advertising
If you have the money and resources, this can be easier to do on a large scale, than a one on one scale.
This big scale takes a long game approach.
One example is how they sold pianos way back in the day.
First, they built houses with extra space.
Then they sold these “bigger houses” to enough people.
Once they knew they had plenty of people living in this bigger houses with extra space, then they hit them hard with the piano sales.
But they knew that not a lot of people actually wanted to play the piano.
They hit their emotions.
Not their rational need to learn music.
If you lived in a big house, with a piano, this said a LOT about you.
That you could afford a big house.
That you could afford a piano.
They you were “somebody” who was interested in the finer things in life, like music, art, etc.
Mass market advertising is pretty easy.
One On One?
So long as you have the resources, the time, the backing from large corporations, etc.
But what about in one-on-one situations?
Where people don’t know you or your product, yet you still want to make a fat commission?
When the object of your affection doesn’t know much about you, but you’d still like to generate some romantic desire?
How do you do this?
By understanding human nature.
But speaking to THEIR deep desires.
And building up their deep desires big enough, they’ll start to subconsciously connect their deep, “desire feeling” to you.
Or your products.
Or whatever else you want them to want.
Mind Persuasion has plenty of books and courses to teach you how to speak hypnotically and persuasively.