All ladies, and all people, respond to a guy who has ambition.
Job interviews ask those goofy questions for a reason.
“So, where do you see yourself in five years?”
Having a strong ambition and being proactive go hand in hand.
Suppose you answered the job interview question like this:
“Well, my plan is to just show up for work, do the job well enough to get paid and hope for the best.”
You’d never get hired.
The idea of being proactive means being able to solve problems as they come up, and not sit around waiting for somebody else to tell you what to do.
People with concrete dreams are much more attractive than people with vague wishes.
People with concrete dreams and a deep understand that they NEED to build them are much more attractive than pretty much everybody.
People with concrete dreams that are on the path are extremely attractive.
This, of course, can be confusing.
A lot of people claim they are “on their purpose.”
Which may be true, but just “being on your purpose” is not enough to get jobs or ladies or anything.
If you are “on your purpose” but that means lowering your debt, and losing weight and building muscles, that’s nice, but in and of itself it won’t do much.
You have to HAVE a purpose to BE on your purpose.
But that purpose itself has to be attractive.
Having a purpose of losing weight and eliminating debt will get you a lot of props from most people.
But in and of itself, that “purpose” is not attractive.
It’s certainly not UNATTRACTIVE.
Buy by itself it won’t do much other than get you those props.
Your purpose must inspire you.
It must be something you are willing to chase relentlessly at all costs.
And for it to be innately attractive, it must have something to do with more power or wealth of some kind.
To do great things and get great rewards.
To become the greatest artist of all time.
To become the greatest athlete of all time.
To become the greatest public speaker of all time.
To become something that suggests dominating your competition.
The good news is that this only needs to exist, in your mind, as a legitimate plan.
And casually drop references of this in regular conversations.
That will covertly illustrate three aspects of this ambition.
One, you are already doing things to move closer, whatever they are.
Two, it at the level, in your brain, of burning desire.
And three, it is MORE IMPORTANT than anything else, including the person you are talking to.
Do this and will be irresistible.
Mind Persuasion has plenty of books and courses to teach you how to speak hypnotically and persuasively.