A couple of days ago I saw my next-door neighbor for the first time. I was a little bit worried she is an older woman at least late 70s maybe early 80s.
The reason I was a little bit worried was if you’ve ever found yourself in a conversation with somebody like this you’ll notice that these kind of people that are older and single they tend to be very very happy to talk your ear off all day long.
If you need to extract yourself from the conversation it can be a little uncomfortable. So I was a little bit worried when I first saw her then something about it, I noticed that her energy was much different than the typical needy or clingy energy from an older lonely person.
Extremely Confident Woman
She seemed to be very confident. In fact she seemed to be much more confident than most people. I went over and I introduced myself. I noticed that she was wearing a wedding band and she noticed that I noticed her wedding band.
She purposely stopped and she looked at it and she allowed herself to be overcome by memories of fondness and happiness. So I asked her what the deal was with and she said if you have time I’d be happy to explain it to you.
She was very careful to make sure that I knew would take a little bit of time to explain it. She wasn’t going to try and trick me into having some long conversation. I followed her to her apartment and she told me her kind of whole back story.
Pre First Wave Feminist
She said that when she was in her 30s she had already made the decision that she was never going to get married. She, as she explained herrself, she was a headstrong staunch pre-first wave feminist that had decided by the time she was 30 that she did need men didn’t what children.
She wanted to prove that the to the world that as a single female she could become successful. She convinced her boss to pay for her to go to a very expensive very extensive communication seminar. She decided to blatantly use those skills to further her career at the expense of her company.
She had no problem doing that. On the first day of the seminar she noticed the only other female in the seminar was the instructor. After the first day the instructor asked her out for a couple of drinks.
Plan On Getting Married?
The first question she asked her was are you married and are you going to get married. She said no she hadn’t planned on it. She didn’t need to get married to be successful. The instructor said that is a very very big mistake.
She was kind of taken aback. She asked why. The instructor explained that the main thing that gave humans the advantage over all other animals on earth is the sexual division of labor. Way back when, way before we became humans, way before we did developed language and even our conscious thinking capabilities we invented the sexual division of labor.
Men would go out for one type of food and women would go after another type of food. That is something that you will not find in any other animal on earth. That is the basis upon which all of the differences between males and females was developed. That is the evolutionary instinctive basis upon which the whole idea of male-female energy exists.
Superficial Understanding Insufficient
The problem with modern society is that because we can only understand ourselves on a very superficial level, we can only create relationships with other people on a very superficial level of compatibility.
If you want to get into a relationship with a partner, it can be extremely powerful, it can help you achieve massive amounts of wealth and happiness and success, but only if you can find a partner that is compatible on all levels.
That’s very very difficult for most people because most people only understand themselves in a very superficial level. If you can first understand yourself and accept yourself on all levels then it’s much easier to find a partner that your compatible with on all levels.
If you can find a partner that you are compatible with on all levels you will see the massive amount of success, much more success than you think is possible by yourself on even a superficial level.
The problem with modern societie is because technology is so advanced that even with an understanding of yourself only on a superficial level you can achieve a lot of financial success. This is the same reason why you’ll find a lot of people today are financially successful but they’re still very very unhappy especially in their relationships.
If you don’t understand yourself on all levels you can’t have a happy relationship. You can’t be compatible with somebody on all levels. The trick is to first become familiar with yourself except yourself on all levels create a relationship with somebody with that where your compatible on all levels and then everything after that will seem easy and automatic.
Year Of Self Discovery
The woman spent the next year trying to understand herself on almost all levles. When she did she did found a partner that she was compatible with on a levels. That was the person that she remembered when she looked at her wedding band. The guy she was married to for 40 years.
The whole time she was telling me this I noticed that she was very very aware of even what I was thinking. When my curiosity kind of went one direction she would shift the conversation that direction without me needing to say anything.
When I started to think in another direction she would shift the conversation in that direction without me really needing to say anything.
Telepathic Levels Of Understanding
I asked her about that and she said when you understand yourself on a complete level, when you accept yourself on a complete level, it will give you an almost telepathic understanding of other people.
That will make it very very easy for you to communicate with other people. It will be very very easy for you to understand what other people are thinking and talk to them in a way that is exactly the way they want to hear.
Mind Persuasion has plenty of books and courses to teach you how to speak hypnotically and persuasively.