You how when you get a great idea, but then you start to think about it, but then you start getting all kinds of fears and negative self talk swirling around your brain? This is very common, and very natural. Unless you take action right away, you ARE going to have some internal fears and […]
How To Create Your Own Meaning Of Life
Much has been written about the meaning of life. However, it’s really not so complicated. Well, it doesn’t HAVE to be complicated. But we humans tend to be pretty good at making a mess out of things. One of the sources of confusion is that we live in a modern, exchange based society, but our […]
How To Understand And Remove Your Limiting Filters
Often times, I’ll go on short bike rides in the morning. It’s a good way to let my imagination roam (especially after some strong coffee). My destination is usually a big park in front of the local library. Sometimes I’ll sit on the bench and run through some patterns I’ve been working on. I don’t […]
How To Fake It Till You Make It – Natural Seduction Style
Getting a number from a girl is a fantastic accomplish. One that most guys only dream of. But as I’m sure you know, this is only the beginning. How you use that number is crucial to how successful you’ll be. There’s two things that she needs to think about you when she thinks about you […]
Don’t Ignore The Depth Of Language
As I’ve posted previously, taking an acting class is a great way to increase your all around skills. Self expression, taking social risks, learning to more effectively use your voice, or “instrument,” as they say. Not to mention all the cool, outside the box people you’ll meet. There’s plenty of exercises we did, in order […]
The Myth of Reality
There are two kinds of reality. The objective, measurable, reality “out there.” Then there’s the subjective, interpretive reality “in here.” The “out there” reality is what can be observed, measured, recorded, and later studied. The “in here” reality is based on our subjective biases, filters and beliefs. One problem with human nature is that we […]
How Deep Does This Rabbit Hole Go?
Language is an incredibly complex phenomenon. Folks that study this kind of thing can only guess when, where, and why it started. What makes it even more interesting is for the large part of our history, the world was a relatively simple place. Nouns were usually things. Descriptions of things were straightforward. Recursiveness was essential, […]
The Power of Hallucinations
Talking to an imaginary friend can be a great way get insight into a problem, or find unique and creative ways to get more of what you want. Of course, when you talk to your “imaginary” friend, you’re really talking to yourself. But if you were to ask “you” for an opinion, the same “you” […]
Five Proven Techniques For Effective Personality Development
Few of us wouldn’t like to improve our personalities. However, it’s not like improving your jump shot, where you exactly what to do and how to measure your success. There are a lot of aspects of our personality, and a lot of ways we can improve. It’s also not always easy to tell when we’re […]
Do You Plan Your Words?
Most people speak like Chewbacca plays chess. They sweep their hairy arms across the table, knocking pieces all over the place. The most elegant persuaders, however, are usually thinking a couple moves ahead. They know with each statement what it will do in terms of increasing or decreasing rapport, eliciting or leveraging their criteria, or […]
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