Social Anxiety is incredibly crippling.
And very common.
But it’s also something few people talk about.
And as humans tend to do, we reframe weaknesses into strengths.
So what ends up happening is you have a whole bunch of people that suffer from social anxiety.
But nobody really says, “I’d like to talk to that girl over there but I’m so freaked out just thinking about it I’d rather not.”
Instead we come up with common copes.
Which is why the phrase “misery loves company” is so true.
It’s much easier to grab hold of a very common “cope” than it is to create one on the spot.
And if you check a lot of manosphere type ideas, most of them are heavy on the cope.
Sure, some people have legitimate beefs.
Particularly dudes who have gotten destroyed in divorce court.
This is much more of a men’s right’s issues.
But if you’ve never been married, and never suffered HUGE financial losses from a relationship, consider that the manosphere provides a comfortable cope.
Just to be sure, do this difficult but honest mental experiment.
First, think of a reason WHY you aren’t out there killing it with the ladies.
Too busy, more important things to do, modern ladies are low quality, etc.
Now imagine that all the gorgeous ladies are busily trying to game you.
EVERYWHERE you go.
Maybe you accidentally drank some magic meteor juice or something.
Truth Or Fiction?
Would you still hold to those ideas?
That you are too busy, or you’ve got more important things to do, or the ladies are low quality?
Like if you went out and a bunch of gorgeous ladies were competing for your time, and your attention, and your sex, would you STILL tell them you were too busy or working on other things?
Be honest with yourself.
But here’s the truth about things like social anxiety.
It’s based on ancient programming that isn’t true any more.
The false fear of you presenting yourself to them and getting rejected.
Or about you simply having a conversation with them and they telling you that you are unworthy.
There is a simple way to destroy this common belief keeping tons of dudes on the sidelines.
One is to forget about closing anybody, at least for a while.
Just talk to pretty ladies like they are normal people.
ONLY attempt to have a friendly conversation.
Two is to PURPOSELY look for as many similarities as you can.
You can even do this non verbally.
To imagine all the things that are true about you that also MUST be true about them.
This will train you to see all those people out there as being very, very much like you.
Sure, this will take a while to retrain your brain.
But what’s on the other side?
A bunch of easy, friendly and happy conversations with gorgeous ladies.
Mind Persuasion has plenty of books and courses to teach you how to speak hypnotically and persuasively.