Humans have a ton of instincts.
Most of which we have no clue about.
Food, sex, status, these are pretty basic.
Dudes compete with other dudes.
The winners get the social rewards.
Fame, money, sex, etc.
These are pretty basic.
But just like a delicious dish, there are plenty of micro instincts.
You go to a chili cook off and taste a bunch of different pots of chili.
They are all “basically” the same.
Meat, beans, spices.
But everybody has their secret ingredient.
Or a secret combination of ingredients.
We can think of the big three (sex, money, status) as a kind of “blunt” instrument.
But there are tons of micro-instincts.
Different calibrations and connections of micro-instincts.
One of these is our ego.
Our ego itself is complex.
One is as a social status measuring tool.
It makes is feel good when we are getting positive validation.
It makes us feel like crap when we are getting negative validation.
It’s also a social status projecting tool.
To always be on the lookout for any opportunities to demonstrate social status.
But it’s also a very necessary “feeling generator.”
A very necessary feeling to be a healthy and happily functioning human.
It creates a very delicate feeling.
Of being “unique” or “special.”
Just A Little
But in a slightly positive way.
Not nearly as strong as an “I’m better than everybody” feeling.
More like a very subtle motivation to find REASONS to demonstrate our uniqueness, but in a way that will be perceived positively by our peers.
A very subtle driving force to keep us looking to demonstrate WHY we are unique.
IN a way that will get us positive status.
To drive us, to DO SOMETHING that will get us noticed.
To do something in the short term, or in the long term, to help us move TOWARD the big three.
Money, sex, status.
The problem is most people are also crippled by social anxiety.
We WANT to express our gifts to others, but we are too worried about how they’ll respond.
This is an internal reason why most live lives of quiet desperation.
We are DESPERATE to find situations where we can express ourselves, through words, actions or behaviors, to demonstrate our gifts.
But we are quiet because most of the time, most people play it safe.
This is where YOU come in.
The Party Hero.
The person who KNOWS this is true about everybody.
And simply by doing the work to FIND THOSE THINGS about them, and help them express them, you will be the one appreciated.
You will be remembered.
You will be the one they want.
You will be the most popular person at every party, social gathering, or conversation.
Mind Persuasion has plenty of books and courses to teach you how to speak hypnotically and persuasively.