Whatta Ya Got?
Imagine you went in for a job interview.
And you said, right off the bat, something like this:
“Hey, Mr. Job interviewer.
Thanks for taking the time to talk to me.
I don’t want to waste your time, nor my time.
I’ve already got three offers from company X, Y, and Z.
In fact, here are the offers they sent me.
How about you take a look, and see if you can beat them.
Then I’ll give you twenty minutes to convince me to work here instead of those other companies.
This would be very, very easy.
Suppose you had the same kind of feeling when you were in a social situation.
Let’s say you were flirting with a cutie across the room.
And then you looked at your phone, scrolling through all the ladies on your list.
All the various text exchanges involving them begging you to come over and take care of business.
And just to make sure, you texted three of them, saying:
“Hey, I’m not making any promises, but I might come by in a hour or so.
If I did, would you be home?”
And let’s say EACH ONE responded like this:
“Yeah, baby, if you want to come by, I’ll be here! On my bed! Waiting for you!”
Then you decided to walk over and talk to that cutie across the room.
Would you be nervous?
Would you ask her shyly for her phone number?
Or would you playfully show her the pics of the ladies, and there texts and say something like this:
“So you up maybe for a threesome, or just you and me?”
Either way you KNOW you are going to get some that night.
Like in the job interview, no matter what that guy says, you KNOW you’re going to get paid.
This is just a fantasy, right?
This would rarely happen, right?
It’s actually much easier than you think.
Even if you DON’T have any job offers.
Even if you DON’T have any ladies on your roster.
By not being needy and taking anything you can get.
Once you demonstrate that you have standards, it creates a very interesting effect in their brain.
Once you ask questions that IMPLY you have standards, it’s even more powerful.
If you waltz into a job interview and immediately say:
“I only work for environmentally friendly companies.”
That will make you LESS desirable.
You’re making demands without offering any benefits.
Slowly Play Both Sides
But when you slowly allude to your criteria, while conversationally demonstrating value, that creates a double effect.
This will hit them in a FEELING level.
Which will make them wonder about you.
This will make them start to qualify themselves to you.
Mind Persuasion has plenty of books and courses to teach you how to speak hypnotically and persuasively.