I have a friend who has absolutely powerful game. He only dates strippers, and he has a very tight set of constraints under which he operates.
Long ago, he absolutely sucked with women, and wanted to learn how to date, so he could get a girlfriend.
But once he learned how easy it is, he decided a relationship is not something he wants.
The reason he focuses on strippers is that it’s easiest to create a mutually enjoyable short term sexual encounter.
I have a neighbor who has a dating problem. He’s a good looking guy, a smart guy and a fairly socially skilled guy.
When he was in college, he got girls easily. He just did whatever he did and ended up with a few relationships throughout college.
But today, he does whatever he does, but there are no girls to be found. The stuff he does naturally just doesn’t lend itself to spontaneously created relationships.
Illusion of Choice
This is a very common problem today for men and women. For most of human history, all they way back from the caveman days up until recently, nobody ever had to worry about this stuff.
People just did what they did and hooked up. Now we have this illusion of choice.
Which makes everybody want what they can’t really get.
And what we can get, we don’t really want.
I know this woman, who’s in her mid thirties, extremely attractive, and she’s a witch.
Not only is she a witch but she practices a very powerful from of sex hypnosis.
She’s already had four husbands, but she is very rare in her technique.
She’ll first target a very intelligent under achiever.
Somebody who’s both an underachiever financially and socially.
She’ll seduce him using witchcraft, and turn him into a financial genius.
Then she’ll use her sex hypnosis to turn him into a super confident, outgoing player type.
Then he starts to realize that he’s got way more sexual market value than he’s ever had, which is being wasted on being married.
He’s also worth several million dollars at this point.
She uses witchcraft and hypnosis to get him to initiate the divorce.
She gets half, he’s happy since his financial skills and sexual market value are through the roof.
It’s a win-win.
Churn and Burn
She might do this one more time before she starts to look for a different kind of project.
She’s worth several million dollars from these previous projects.
Back in the day, when we all lived in small communities, our only options were what we saw around us.
That made it easy to closely calibrate what we wanted with what was available.
We Want What We Can’t Get
But today, what most people want, relationships wise, is so far out of calibration, everything wants what they can’t get.
And the only stuff they can get, realistically, is stuff they want.
Which is the main reason why modern dating is such a dumpster fire of despair and unending emotional frustration.
My neighbor doesn’t really know what to do. Intellectually, the solution is pretty simple.
Pick Up A Hobby
Slowly recalibrate his interests to slowly allow for more organic relationship potential.
But the problem with that is he works fifty, sixty hours a week.
So while he knows what to do, it’s a lot of extra effort and energy.
He’s finally got his system down so he limits himself to one hour, and one hundred dollars.
If he can take a girl out of the strip club within an hour, and by spending less than $100, he bails out.
He’s got about a fifty percent success rate.
I keep asking him but he won’t tell me his exact strategy.
He says it’s simple, but it’s not anything he’s seen taught anywhere.
Even better is he travels a lot for work, so when he takes them from the strip club, they always go to a hotel.
Short Term Love
Right off the bat he tells them he’s from out of town.
Then he uses his linguistic magic, creates a ton of sexual desire, and he’s batting close to five hundred.
Mind Persuasion has plenty of books and courses to teach you how to speak hypnotically and persuasively.