Scarcity Gone Wild
Nearly everybody is aware of the value of scarcity.
Even in goofy romantic movies, the idea of not calling or texting too often is pretty ubiquitous.
When you really dig somebody this is hard to do.
Particularly if you really dig somebody and you aren’t sure if they dig you or not.
Or worse, if you suspect they don’t dig you nearly as much as you dig them.
This makes you desperate for some kind of validation that they at least REMEMBER you.
A common nightmare scenario is to call somebody you THINK digs you as much as you dig them, but they respond:
“Hi, uh, who is this?”
Most people, particularly guys, absolutely KILL any chance of real attraction from the very beginning.
If you radiate any kind of desperate energy, you will put yourself out of the running for any kind of serious relationship.
So unless you’re obviously wealthy, or super gorgeous, you’ll get discounted.
Same For Everybody?
Which is why it’s pretty easy to THINK that looks and money are all the ladies care about.
If you, and your reference group, have any kind of scarcity mindset, you will see things through this common lens or frame.
Of only having a collective experience of the ladies interaction with you AFTER feeling your desperate energy.
What IS desperate energy?
Any kind of non-verbal energy that radiates a subconscious kind of neediness.
How fast your eyes move around the room.
How quickly your head turns when somebody says your name.
How quickly you laugh at lame jokes.
But here’s the worse part.
Before you even start talking to her, she’s already made up her mind about you.
They Already Know
Ladies are getting hit on all the time.
Even if most of those dudes don’t talk to them, they are ALL being judged and categorized.
If you check her out, she catches you and you act like you got caught?
This tells her quite a bit about you.
This is, however, something you can train out of your behavior.
Like getting rid of any other bad habit.
By slowly shifting how you interact with ALL people.
Not just pretty ladies or anybody else you want something from.
Then you won’t need to even think about things like scarcity.
Any one person, including gorgeous ladies, won’t be a once in a lifetime opportunity.
Just another random person added to your massive memory banks.
Every better is when you learn HOW to interact with people.
To plant seeds in their mind.
Seeds that will grow over time.
So all you’ll need to is change up how you interact with all people.
And you’ll be slowly building an army of admirers.
This will give you an incredible amount of confidence for any reason.
Mind Persuasion has plenty of books and courses to teach you how to speak hypnotically and persuasively.