When you think about doing something, from where do you get more motivation? Are you motivated internally or externally? Internally, by your own criteria, and how you’ll judge yourself, or externally, based on the criteria of others and how they’ll judge you? For most of us, we’re a mix of both. Which is better? It […]
How To Be An Alpha Male
There’s lots of confusion about what an alpha male is. The tallest guy, the richest guy, the guy with the flashiest bling. These are all “externals.” Sure, when you’re talking about cavemen, or animals, externals are pretty important. But in modern life, when most guys get rich with their brains rather than their brawn, it’s […]
What Is Social Proof?
Most people have heard the term “social proof,” and you certainly read about it online a lot. But what is it really? And more importantly, how does it work? Most everything that’s is our brains is there because it helped us survive before the invention of agriculture. Not only that, but these instincts are unconscious, […]
Cold Water Or Vacations?
Most of us talk in metaphors quite often, without really knowing it consciously. For example, how would you describe that initial bit of awkwardness when first talking to a cute girl? Or that feeling of anxiety when going out for a night of number closes? Many folks have described it as like jumping in a […]
The Trojan Horse Close
When getting ideas into people’s heads, there’s plenty of tricks and techniques. One way is to take a suggestion, and then follow it up with something that sounds like it’s a suggestion, but in reality is a truth. This “truth” is best states as a “truth” about the other person, so on the surface it […]
The Hypothetical Qualifying Opener
Say you see a girl across the room. You’d love to go over and game her, but for some reason, you can’t think of a reason to start the conversation. Next time you’re in this situation, try this out. Think of an honest compliment. Then jack it up a few notches. Really make it “out […]
This May Not Be Relevant To You…
Whenever you’re persuading somebody, you’re going to have resistance. The only time you likely won’t is the early honeymoon phase of any relationship. Any other time, pretty much anything anybody says is going to be met with at least a little bit of resistance, spoken or not. We’re human after all, and we don’t like […]
Quick Confidence Booster
The more confidence you’ve got, the better you feel, right? Right. How do you get more? Here’s one way. Next time you’re out and about, try flirting with your eyes. Don’t worry about approaching or anything like that. Make eye contact with some cutie, and while you’re holding eye contact, make it obvious, through your […]
Find Proof Of Success
Here’s a quick tip you can use to rapidly accelerate your progress toward whatever goal your going after. It’s based on the idea that our conscious brains are extremely limited in what we can see “out there.” Studies have estimated that while there’s literally MILLIONS of bits of information hitting our senses every single second, […]
Use The Force For Powerful Attraction
When talking to girls, it’s easy to get lost in the chatter of your mind. Trying to think of what to say, trying to avoid getting rejected, trying to milk the interaction for all it’s worth. Next time you’re talking to a girl you like, try clearing your mind. Forget about having any outcome at […]
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