There are two kinds of reality. The objective, measurable, reality “out there.” Then there’s the subjective, interpretive reality “in here.” The “out there” reality is what can be observed, measured, recorded, and later studied. The “in here” reality is based on our subjective biases, filters and beliefs. One problem with human nature is that we […]
Scavenger Hunting
Have you ever been on a scavenger hunt as a kid? Or maybe as an adult with those global caching games? You’ve got a list of stuff to find, you break out into teams, and see who can find them all first. You can use this same concept, alone or with a group of guys […]
I Love You More
I was out this morning down near the station. I saw this girl coming toward me from a ways away. Her shirt had “I heart MORE” in big letters, where the “heart” was a shape, not the word. I thought, “hmm, that’s a pretty interesting thing to put on a t-shirt.” But as she got […]
How To Make Seduction Her Idea
Chasing women is built into our genes, and it seems to be the fall back position for most guys. Luckily, it’s not the only way get the girl of your dreams. See, there’s plenty of pre-programmed “strategies” that are in our brains. They were put there by Mother Nature or God or whomever, and they […]
Get Their Imagination On Your Side
The great thing about using somebody’s imagination to support your ideas is that you don’t really need to know the content of their imagination, just the structure. One of the most profound things about studying and applying covert and conversational hypnosis is the difference between “content” language and “structure” language. When you speak in content […]
The Essential But Forgotten Seduction Skill
When you think of practicing skills for seduction, what comes to mind? If you’re like most guys, you tend to think of practicing your openers, practicing overcoming inevitable tests, how to spot IOI’s across the room. Maybe some advanced conversational tactics. But there’s one more that’s incredibly powerful, yet almost nearly forgotten by most guys. […]
How Deep Does This Rabbit Hole Go?
Language is an incredibly complex phenomenon. Folks that study this kind of thing can only guess when, where, and why it started. What makes it even more interesting is for the large part of our history, the world was a relatively simple place. Nouns were usually things. Descriptions of things were straightforward. Recursiveness was essential, […]
Secret Sister Seduction
Here’s a model that can be incredibly helpful to increase your playfulness and decrease approach anxiety in the field. When any guy walks up to an attractive girl, there’s plenty of pressure. I don’t care how much experience you have, you’re going to feel a bit nervous. I’m sure you’ve heard the old expression that […]
Why Do These Patterns Work So Well?
It’s no secret that Milton Erickson was one of the most persuasive and effective “hypnotists” that ever lived. I use quotations because he came up with a whole new way of hypnotizing people that didn’t require that they know they were being hypnotized. You’d think somebody coming into the office of a hypnotist to be […]
The Double Edged Sword of Unconscious Attraction
It’s common knowledge that attraction is not a choice. You know this when you walk into a place that’s got plenty of girls. Some are attractive, some aren’t. You have no say in the matter. Attraction is just like any other instinct. When you’re hungry, you can’t choose to not be hungry. When a tiger […]
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