When you approach a girl, there’s a flood of emotions swirling through your brain. Some are evolutionarily programmed, others are due to your childhood and upbringing. Which is which? Who knows. The bottom line is how confident and congruent you are will have a HUGE amount of impact on how well the approach goes. Let’s […]
Same Or Different?
One of the ways we sort thing is by putting them into categories of “sameness” or “difference.” Let’s say you go to a new restaurant, let’s say an Italian place, that you’ve never been do before. Maybe it just opened up, or maybe you discovered it on a roundabout way home from work. Anyhow, there […]
The “As If” Frame
Sometimes you’ve gotta fake it till you make it. You’ve doubtless heard this before, but what does it mean? A great way to do this is through the “as if” frame. Let’s say you’d like to be a highly persuasive person, able to walk up to anybody, friend or stranger, and start talking in beautiful […]
The Power of Appreciation
Be forewarned, this is one of those things that sounds like it’s a bit heavy on the “law of attraction” mumbo jumbo, but you’ll find it can fast track your ability to get seriously laid. Appreciation is a powerful force. When you appreciate something, it’s presupposed that you accept it. And when you accept something, […]
Hallucinate Yourself To Power
Here’s a great hallucination that can help you gather some incredibly useful resources from some imaginary people. Napoleon Hill, the think and grow rich guy, had a mastermind group of imaginary folks from the past that he would meet with on a regular basis. This is kind of like that. First, choose four people from […]
The Danger Of Misplaced Meaning
Your brain is incredibly fast, but not very accurate. This was a crucial distinction made long ago. Instead of sitting there determining the precise probability you’d be eaten by a tiger, early humans developed a fast thinking brain instead of an accurate one. This kept us alive. Of course, sometimes we made mistakes. But better […]
Unspoken Beliefs
Everybody has a set of beliefs and intentions, some conscious and some unconscious. These come out when we speak, either overtly or covertly, intended or unintended. Most people have ideas or beliefs that they don’t want “discovered” so they aren’t “questioned.” This is why the set of meta-model language patterns can see so confrontational. By […]