So a couple of weeks ago I was down at my local park. It’s a relatively big park. On the far left side there is a big huge flat cement area where a lot of kids come and do skateboard tricks.
On the far right there is a more of a grassy tree area where a lot of women, mothers, kids, come and hang out. I usually hang out about halfway in between.
This guy came up slightly to my left and started to practice juggling. I could tell he was practicing. He wasn’t an advanced juggler because he had three beanbags, and about every four or five cycles he would drop one of them and have to start over.
I waited until he stopped to ask him why he wanted to learn juggling, just to be conversational. He said he wanted to learn juggling to be able to be more successful with women.
Magic For Love
This is a very common idea. If you’ve ever studied Mystery Method one of his main themes is to learn tricks and magic and demonstrate value. Do kinds of things that draw attention to himself away from other people.
The idea of doing magic tricks is not a new idea when it comes to picking up girls. He said the way he came to think about this was interesting.
He was at this one house party, and he noticed that this house party there was this guy was in a room, surrounded by women. The women were all staring at them with that telltale body language that says they’re extremely attracted.
They all had very large pupils. A few of them had their mouths slightly open. They all had very, very open body language.
Authority Party Power
They were all facing him but he was talking about completely random normal everyday things. He was talking about things like doing his laundry or ordering fast food or asking his boss to go home early.
This guy was watching him and he couldn’t understand why these women were so transfixed by this guy that wasn’t that good-looking. He wasn’t that rich, wasn’t that wealthy, but he was talking about these is completely random things yet they were completely transfixed.
He waited until the guy had a few minutes and he asked him he said, dude, how do you do that? The guy told him, he said I don’t have a lot of time and obviously have a couple of these girls that are very interested in me, but I’ll tell you it all starts with doing magic tricks.
So this guy went home and he studied magic tricks you can learn. All the tricks you can do a parties to attract attention and it turns out that’s exactly true.
When you do magic tricks, all kinds of magic tricks involve three important things. The first thing is you have to be comfortable being the center of attention. You have to be comfortable waiting for people to gather around you while you continue to do whatever you’re doing.
You have to be comfortable having other people watch you intently while you’re doing whatever it is you’re doing.
Two other things are kind the same. That you have to have two ideas in your mind at the same time. The first idea is the surface structure thing that you want them to look at, the other idea is the deep structure thing that you’re doing secretly that you don’t want anybody to notice.
Deep Magic Power
If you doing regular magic tricks that’s exactly what magic tricks are. Magic tricks involve being the center of attention. They involve doing this sleight-of-hand misdirection type thing. You purposely get people looking one way while you’re doing something else.
The other way, and when you can take this to the level of conversation becomes incredibly powerful. When you can be the center of attention you can feel comfortable being the center of attention, when you can talk about surface structure things that you want people to pay attention to.
But on the deep structure level you’re using these deeply powerfully hypnotic language patterns that create deep attraction and sexual desire in women. What this will do as this will create three powerful things in the women if you can do these three powerful things yourself it will have three powerful responses in women.
The first thing is they will recognize that you are an authority figure since you’re doing all the talking and everybody else is doing the listening. Two, it will create massive amounts of social proof because they’ll notice that everyone else is watching you. This is also kind the flipside of authority.
Three and most importantly, this is where the magic happens, is if you have enough women, you need to have kind of a critical mass of women in the group, they will start to notice that they feel attracted to you and they will notice that other women feel attracted to you.
This will create some kind of a competition attraction. Like a subconscious sexual desire attraction where their subconscious minds compete with one another to see who can become the most attracted to you. If you can create this response, all you really need to do is choose the one that is the most attracted to you and she will do anything you want.
After this guy describe this, I said wow, thats’s interesting. I watched him and he started juggling again. As he was juggling I was noticing and generally I was watching. Because I was watching him juggle all of the mothers at the far end of the park also watched him start to juggle.
Everybody Sees Everybody Seeing
More importantly, their kids saw him juggle. The kids noticed that the other kids were watching him juggle. The outcome was they slowly moved over to stand around and watch his juggling. Because their kids were standing around him the mothers were now moving around him.
I saw that happen before my very eyes. I saw this attraction competition happen between the mothers and the only thing holding back was they all knew each other and they all knew that they were there with her kids. They kind of had to hold themselves back from expressing too much obvious attraction.
Since I was looking for that I saw it happen. I realized just how powerful this combination of things is.
Mind Persuasion has plenty of books and courses to teach you how to speak hypnotically and persuasively.