Escalation, physical escalation is a crucial skill. Both to increase attraction, as well as “test” to see if any is there. After all, it’s easy to read books and watch videos about IOI’s and understand things about pupil dilation, body language, color texture of her cheeks and what not, but when you’re neck deep in […]
What Girls Are REALLY Complaining About – And The EASY Solution
I was having drinks with a friend of mine the other night. She was telling me about her guy troubles. Turns out, girls complain about guys just about as much as guys complain about girls. Her biggest complaint? (her words, not mine) “Guys are cowards.” Turns out there’s this guy she’s interested in. She likes […]
How To Accelerate The Escalation Process For Meaningful Connections
Most girls need to feel a certain level of comfort with a guy before they’ll allow themselves to physically escalate. You’ve got to talk to her for a while before you can get the number, go on a couple of dates before you can sleep with her, etc. Sure, they’re exceptions to every rule. […]
How To Always Be Testing For Green Lights
There’s a common mistake that many, many guys make. They wait too long for obvious green lights. Sure, it’s a horrible feeling to get shot down, rejected, sent home packing. So in order to protect ourselves, we wait and make sure that we aren’t going to get rejected before we take any kind of action. […]
Inside Secrets Of The Kiss Close
Getting past that first conversation is pretty difficult. Approaching, opening, building rapport can be the toughest part for most guys. However, once you get past that, it’s not smooth sailing. At least not all the time. Everybody’s different, and everybody’s got their own idea of how fast or slow they want to go. If you […]
Two Steps To Physical Escalation
One of the most crucial mistakes guys make with girls is looking for conscious buy in. They are at her place, or at the bar, and they hesitate making a move. Later on they’ll complain that they didn’t get any green lights or obvious signs that it was OK to go in for the kiss. […]