So This Friend Set Me Up
I had this nice female colleague several years ago. I say nice because she was always trying to set me up with her friends.
A lot of guys don’t like this because they don’t like to go on a date with somebody that they might not be attracted to. They see that as a kind of affront to their personality. I always see this is a good thing.
Every time you meet somebody new it is a chance to expand your social circle. Every time you have a chance to expand your social circle you can increase your probability of having a relationship with somebody eventually. Most people meet their significant other through their social circle.
When I see these blind date set of friends of friends I see them as potential dates and comfortable. I see them as potential friends that are in allow me to increase my social circle.
Oh By The Way
One time we were leaving work on Friday and as she was leaving she told me she said a going to a party with her sister on Sunday and at this party her sister is going to be bringing a friend and this friend might be perfect for you you should come.
The way she said you should come meant that it wasn’t a setup to meet this person to check each other out so that sounded kind of cool. I went to this party on Sunday afternoon by myself and I was in a really really good.
I was going to a party with a preset social circle. Three females were expecting to meet me, one of which might be someone that I might be interested in. I was in a pretty good mood so I walked into this party by myself I was in a good mood I started talking to strangers.
Pre Frame Everything
I normally don’t talk to strangers. I don’t normally don’t start conversations with strangers but I was in such good mood I found it very easy to start conversations with strangers and this woman came up to me out of nowhere and just started talking to me like she knew me.
I figured she was the one that I was supposed to meet because she might have been given a picture of me. This was 20 years ago before social media became really really popular before the Internet was huge. I just assume that this girl knew what I looked like and she was kind of anticipating meeting me so she decided to get the ball rolling and she decided to be the one to start the conversation.
The first thing she said to me was I need to tell you that I’m a psychic. I’m a professional psychic, I read people’s future for a living and when I meet people it can start off fine but then when they find out that I’m a psychic that I can tell people future it gets kind of weird so I wanted to get back out of the way up front.
I thought that’s a pretty natural thing to do that’s pretty smart thing to do and so on, in a joking good mood I lifted up my hand and said okay cool read my palm and she immediately stepped back and her complete energy changed.
Boom Went Something
Before she was friendly and outgoing but when I lifted my palm she looked like she’d been struck by some negative ball of horrible energy and she stepped back and I thought she was gonna tell me that be dead in the next 10 minutes or something or maybe that I was drinking a cup of poison.
But then she smiled and looked at me and said I’m sorry I didn’t mean to do that. It’s just I had this really strange client last week. This guy came and he sat down and normally. When I do a reading I take somebody’s palm, I let the future become clear in my mind.
Next step is the most important step. That is I have to decide what part of their future I’m going to reveal. If I reveal too much that might ruin their future because if they know too much about their future that will change their behavior and when they change their behavior that will make their future different than what I thought it was going to be.
Am I Going To Die?
Most people when they come to see me they don’t want to get a reading of their specific future what they want to do is find out that they’re not going to die in the future.
They want to kind of find out general ideas like everything is going to be okay. You’re going to be fine in your future you’re going to find your place in the world.
You’re going to find a way to contribute to society in a way that should make your contributions not only accepted by many many people but is going to make you a lot of money. You might not have discovered that yet but when you do you’ll find out how you can take your unique blend of gifts and intelligence and talents and insights and turn that into fantastic income.
This Guy Was Different
That’s what people like to hear but this guy was different. His future hit me with incredible power that I’ve never seen before. His future included some, his future included a once in 1000 year paradigm shifting idea that he hadn’t yet discovered and when he discovered this idea it was going to completely change the way everybody on earth does business.
I couldn’t tell exactly what this idea was but when he finally discovered this idea that was still percolating in his brain he was going to change the planet for the better and he was going to make a ton of money because of that. I found myself telling him this before I even knew what was happening.
That was bad because I was afraid I told him too much and so I did the best I could do to keep that from happening. I told him, I said you need to leave now. Here’s your money back please leave now something terrible has happened leave and never come back.
Please Erase Brain When Finished Thinking
Forget everything I said. Forget everything I said. Forget everything I said. He left and I was hoping that with such theatrics I might negate any positive expectations I’d given him for his future.
If you do have a fantastic idea in your brain you have to discover that on your own. If somebody tells you that great idea is there you go looking specifically for it which almost guarantees you’ll not find anything.
She excused herself and left.
I guess because I reminded her some way of this client that she had talked to me. I caused her difficulties so she walked away. I just stood there by myself wondering what in the hell just happened.
Then I got a text from my friend saying she and her sister and her friend were going to be late they weren’t at the party yet so I don’t know this woman was.
Who Was She?
It turned out that the girl they set me up with was like all of the other dates. She was nice she was friendly but there was no chemistry and we later became friends. I saw her at a lot of parties and she would invite me to a lot of parties.
It was just one more way to meet more people. Whenever you get a chance to expand your social circle should always take every opportunity to expand your social circle.
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