Gorgeous Neighborhood Bartender
There’s a bar in my neighborhood I like to go to because I like to watch the bartender. I haven’t drank alcohol in a long time but sitting in a bar is sometimes very relaxing thing to do.
It’s an understood environment where it’s perfectly acceptable to sit there and stare off into space and not need to talk to anybody but this bartender is absolutely gorgeous.
She’s very very intelligent and she’s very very confident and she has this ironclad rule that she will not date anyone under any circumstances that she meets while working. She’s been working there for a while.
She started working when she was getting her degree in psychology. She had these ideas that you would get a degree in psychology and and get a professional job using her psychology degree.
Cold Hard Reality Sets In
She found that that was kind of a naïve set of beliefs. She’s actually enjoying her job much more now that she’s finally accepted that she might have to be a blue-collar worker her entire life.
She makes a lot of money. She interacts with people. She’s usually in a pretty good mood. She’s very very respected by lot of people. She has a friend that she met while she was in college they started the same time.
They both had the same desire to get a degree in psychology and get a professional job with a degree in psychology. She keeps in contact with her just to find out how how things could have been had she forced herself to get a professional job.
Her friend works at a hospital or she used to work at a hospital. Some kind of Occupational Therapy type of situation. Her friend met this guy recently and she said that as soon as she saw this guy she knew that he was different from every other guy.
Rare Kind Of Energy
He had a kind of energy that was so incredibly and irresistibly attractive that she had never experienced from any other guy before there is two things that she knew right away when she saw this guy.
One was she had to be with him she had to experience him. The second was that she knew this guy would never ever even consider the idea of monogamy. It was the first time that those two ideas could coexist in her head without competing with one another.
She got together with him and while they were laying in bed after their two or three hour experience she wanted to find out if he had always been like that or if it was something that he learned from somebody else.
This was a kind of human energy that she had never experienced before. It turns out he used to be a normal guy. He had a medium to above-average level of success with women. He went to this one strange seminar.
Before the guy even opened his mouth he spent the first four hours of the first day showing videos of himself in action so he didn’t have to worry about people wondering if he was just making the stuff up or if he was some kind of con artist like most seduction coaches are today.
Nothing Like This Anywhere
In the videeos he’d shown were videos that no one had ever seen before nothing like them have ever been seen before. It wasn’t him walking up the girls on the street using all kinds of pickup technology these were time lapse videos of him walking into a club and sitting in the corner.
The videos he got were from security tapes from the surveillance cameras in the clubs. He would sit in the corner. He wouldn’t interact with anybody and within 30 minutes to an hour all of the women in the entire club would unconsciously gravitate and be standing around him.
None of them would be looking at him or talking to him directly but still be kind of in their groups of two or three girls but there would slowly position themselves around him. Blocking him from the rest the men as if they’re trying to collectively unconsciously keep him for themselves.
Protecting Valuable Resources
Almost as if they were protecting him from the men and making sure that they were the only ones that were going to get his energy. He showed 20 videos over like this.
The entire seminar was him leading a wordless, psychic guided meditation for three days. It was an experience like he had never experienced before and after the seminar he didn’t quite have that much power but he did have much more success than he used to.
He could just walk into any place and look around the room and all of the females will be giving him very very positive very very obvious body language signals saying please come and talk to me please come and seduce me.
Instant Approach Anxiety Elimination
This eradicated all of his fear of approach anxiety and so he just walk up start conversations with any woman he wanted to and they would be looking at him with these eyes with this expression that said please take me you can do anything you want with me.
This kind of led him to learn how to be much more kinder to women and make sure to give them a very very positive experience because just his presence made them so kind of consciously vulnerable to him and he made sure never to violate that conscious vulnerability.
After her experience with him she couldn’t wait to tell her friend to talk about this from a psychological standpoint. She left that Occupational Therapy hospital because there was much more administrative BS than she had anticipated.
She’s now she’s in veterinary school thinking that hopefully fixing pets will be a lot easier and more enjoyable than fixing people.
It also turns out that most people don’t really want to be fixed they just want to have somebody believe that their problems are not their fault.
Sometimes this bartender is so blatantly confident she’ll see a guy approach. The guy will be obviously attractive obviously wealthy obviously well-dressed obviously with incredibly tight game.
She’ll say straight up look I know you’re coming here to try to pick me up I have an ironclad rule that I never date anyone that I meet while I’m working and since I’m meeting you right now while I’m working it is impossible under any circumstances that we will ever get together aside from you being a customer in my shop.
On Like Donkey Kong
That being said I welcome you to try your best to seduce me but I guarantee you will fail. Invariably the men respond as if okay challenge accepted.
Watching them try to pick her up is almost like watching a beginning boxer practice against someone that’s 10 times as good as they are and invariably they finally give up.
They are almost always very appreciative of her because the kind of intuitively know that after trying and failing for about an hour with her any other girl they go and talk to it will be a lot easier for them.
Mind Persuasion has plenty of books and courses to teach you how to speak hypnotically and persuasively.