I go to this Thai restaurant in my neighborhood once or twice a month. The reason I go there is because there’s three very attractive waitresses.
These three very attractive waitresses are all married and they know that I know that there married. What this does is this creates a set of unwritten boundaries under which we can have a very enjoyable sexually charged flirtatious conversation.
Everyone kind of understands the rules. The rules are this flirtatious sexually charged conversation can only happen when it’s attached to an unrelated business transaction namely me buying lunch from them.
One day there was a new girl that came in to work and she saw how these three very attractive waitresses were treating me and she may be assumed that I was somebody that was kinda very important.
Wow! Who Are You?
This new girl who is equally young and attractive sat down across from me at my table and she just said I want to tell you a story.
Once there was a woman, an old woman who lived in Thailand. Whe was a sorceress and everybody knew that she was a sorceress. She was skilled in both black magic and white magic.
She rarely used black magic because the problem with black magic is that while black magic is very very powerful it always comes with negative repercussions. The negative repercussions themselves are not usually that bad. It’s the expectation and the uncertainty between the act and the repercussions that is so dangerous.
Once you do black magic then you have to wait for the repercussions. The waiting for the repercussions will almost certainly destroy any of your magical energy. So this woman rarely uses black magic. In fact nobody really knows of any specific times in which she has used black magic just that she can if she needs to.
Black Magic Is Dangerous
Most of the time, of course, she uses white magic. And then when she uses white magic she doesn’t really need to because a lot of times people don’t really need her to cast spells for them.
They just come to her for advice and when she gives people advice it’s advice that’s coming from an old and powerful sorceress so usually the advice is good enough.
Once a man and his family moved in next door. The man didn’t know who she was and she of course was very reluctant to share her skills with a stranger. She was very reluctant to let him know how powerful she was.
No one in town wanted to tell him because that meant they might fall out her good graces.
Be Nice To Old People
From this guy’s perspective she was just an old lonely woman living by herself and so he was very nice to her. He would invite her over for dinner with his wife and his kids he would encourage his children to call her aunt or grandma. He would always check up on her throughout the week to make sure she was okay.
After about a month of that she was convinced that he was a very kind man so she decided to sit him down and explain exactly who she was. She said I am a very very powerful sorceress. I have a lot of magic. I have a lot of skills and I can sense that you are very kind man.
She could tell that he was getting nervous. She told him in detail about all of her skills. She told him where she got her skills from she told him how she chose when to use her skills.
He became very very worried that maybe he had made a mistake. Before when she was an old woman he assumed that she needed some kind of help and protection. Now he realized how powerful she was and show he wasn’t quite sure how she might respond.
Good Guys Finish Best
She was very very happy with him. She said because you are such a kind man you will have a fantastic future. Because you are such a kind man you will become very very successful in business. Because you are such a kind person you will enjoy the love and affection of a great many people. Because you are very kind person you will be remembered long after you have left.
When she finished, she just sat there looking at me and I was unsure how to respond. I’ve never heard such a story like this and she smiled when she got up and walked away.
Every time I go back to the restaurant now there’s four young attractive waitresses that I flirt with. It turns out this fourth waitresses married as well.
The restaurant is owned by a bunch of Thai businesspeople. What they do is they have a lot of cousins and nieces and nephews and family members in Thailand. Once they finish high school they bring them to the United States to give him a job in one of their businesses. They help them get through college.
Long Term Business Plan
When they graduate college they give them a beneficial professional job in one of their businesses. That’s what this girl was. She was married to one of the business owners.
I found that whenever you start a conversation with a very attractive female the best way to do that is under the environment of detachment. Meaning you have complete disconnect from outcome your outcome independent.
The best way to create that feeling of outcome independence is just to assume that she has a boyfriend. Assume she has a husband. Assume that she is in a happy relationship and that she knows that she’s in a happy relationship and just enjoy the sexual energy.
Enjoy Sexual Energy
If you enjoy the sexual energy, and you just assume the guidelines are there like the ones in the restaurant where we all assumed that nothing was ever going to happen as a result of our sexual subtle sexual flirtations.
When you start a conversation like that and you just tell yourself nothing is going to happen you have to first convince yourself that nothing is going to happen. That’s the best way to create that outcome independence. Then just enjoy the sexual energy that exists between all humans.
If you enjoy that sexual energy that exists between all humans under the environment of outcome independence that you can create by telling yourself nothing is going to happen, paradoxically that is the most successful way to allow an organic relationship to sprout from that environment.
Mind Persuasion has plenty of books and courses to teach you how to speak hypnotically and persuasively.