Easy Way To Increase Confidence and Decrease Anxiety There are plenty different ways to look at things. There are plenty of different ways to categorize things. For example, you could put everything in the world in two categories: Things that are edible and things that aren’t. Or you could walk into a supermarket and categorize […]
Circle Of Excellence
NLP Change Work That Sticks The Circle of Excellence is a semi-popular NLP procedure that can be very beneficial if done correctly. As mentioned here, most NLP procedures are, unfortunately, not done correctly. They are often taught as “once and done,” quick fixes that work in the seminar room, but out in the harsh world […]
Why Power Corrupts
Why Does Absolute Power Corrupt Absolutely? This is one of those things everybody knows. Why is that guy such a horrible leader? Well, he’s got power, and everybody knows that power corrupts, and absolute power corrupts absolutely. Most high school kids have to write essays showing why this is true. Or showing examples of why […]
The Cialdini Trap
The Real Matrix Who is Cialdini, and why the heck is he trapping us? Cialdini did groundbreaking research and wrote a groundbreaking book (and subsequent books) outlining that things that influence us when we make decisions. Each one of these has been established through various testing and decades of marketing by advertisers. These are […]
The Myth Of History
What Really Happened? This will be a purposely confusing post. This won’t come to a specific point, rather we will be taking some common ideas and taking them apart to see just how flimsy they are. Looking at things from a different angle is very helpful, if only for the skill in doing so. You […]
The Myth Of Complacency
Why Risk And Uncertainty Is Scary We humans don’t like doing new things. Our brains very much like to settle into as many auto pilot situations as we can. Much of our thinking patterns and collections of biases evolved to cut down on thinking energy. Because our brains are a pretty expensive organ (operational calories […]
Integration Of Parts
Easily Resolve Inner Issues What follows will be the background, theory and step by step technique of a very powerful NLP procedure known as “Integration of Parts.” Normally this is done with somebody guiding you, but with practice you can do this quite easily on your own. First we’ll talk about some myths about NLP […]
Magic Money History
What Is Money? This is not going to be a post about how to get money. This is not going to be a post about anything related to anything that sounds like any law of attraction mumbo jumbo. What this post will be about is money, as a concept. You’ll find however that money as […]
Hero’s Journey
The hero’s journey is a story structure that has perhaps been around since before recorded history. In this post we’ll explore what it is, why it’s so compelling, how it likely came to be, and how you can use this in your every day life. You’ll find that it is a very useful structure […]
The Myth Of One Weird Trick
The Search For Shortcuts and Secrets There is a very common idea in self-help areas. Even one of the most successful and widely read book and widely seen movie had the same name as this idea. “The Secret” was titled “the secret” because this is what we often seek. We want something, but we can’t […]
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