I’ve taken a few acting classes at local community colleges in the past. They’re great for a lot of reasons. One is you get to meet some interesting people who aren’t afraid to get out of their comfort zone. They also help you uncover lots of issues about expressing yourself. The best actors are the […]
Are Your Fears Really Real?
I remember long ago, I signed up for Toastmasters, as a means of self improvement. Public speaking is one of our biggest fears, and I figured if I looked one of my fears in the face, and realized that it was much smaller than I’d imagined, I’d feel pretty good. And I did. A good, […]
How To Push ALL Their Happy Buttons For Easy Persuasion
There’s a difference between specific criteria, and pre-programmed criteria. Understanding both is crucial to win-win persuasion, the kind where everybody gets what they want and feels better off after the transaction. Regardless of whether you’re selling million dollar homes or convincing your partner to watch Mad Men instead of America’s Got Talent, understand ALL criteria […]
Harness The Power Of Your Fears For Amazing Seduction Success
Most people have at least heard about Breaking Bad. Maybe you’ve even watched it. The title tells it all. It’s a slow character study in a guy who starts out as an underachieving, highly intelligent science teacher that slowly turns into an evil criminal mastermind. The crucial steps along the way are death. Several times […]
Reduce Her Perceived Risks And Increase Your Success Rate
There’s a powerful technique from psychology that will make dating you seem like a natural thing to do. It’s called “commitment and consistency,” and it basically says that we keep doing the same things we’ve always done. Humans HATE taking risks. We don’t know how they’re going to come out. If we take a risk […]
Confront Your Biggest Fear And It Will Vanish Like Ice In A Volcano
I was watching “Revolver” the other night on Netflix. If you haven’t seen it, I recommend that you check it out. It’s a great metaphor for getting rid of the ego and reaching your full potential. The overall message is that the ego pretends to protect us, but in reality it’s severely limiting us. Like […]
It’s Not About The Toothpaste
If you’re in a relationship, you know how easily some seemingly simple conversation can turn into a big ugly fight. It starts simple enough, you say something, they say something, then you misinterpret something they say, or you don’t quite say something the way you want to say it, so they misinterpret you. This is […]
Use Your Natural Gifts To Get Girls
If you’ve ever been in some kind of situation, for school, or a church group where you had a legimate excuse to go door to door, it may have been pretty fun. I remember back in the day, when I lived in the dorms. On weekends (after coming home from parties half in the bag), […]
Everybody’s Hidden Fear
One of the biggest secrets of life is that we all have the same fears inside our heads. Dale Carnegie discovered a long, long time ago that public speaking was the quickest way to self confidence in social situations. Before he wrote his famous book, “How To Win Friends and Influence People,” he’d organized a […]
Validation For Unstoppable Persuasion
Everybody wants something. All you’ve got to do is figure out what it is, and you’ll be the most popular kid on the block, so to speak. Now, there are short term wants, and long term wants. Specific wants, and vague wants. What we’re after are those deep, long term vague wants that everybody’s got […]