The Mystery Of The Human Mind One of the most confusing things, (or maybe not so confusing since we think we understand it and we really don’t) is the idea of cause and effect. On one hand, it seems simple. We see it happening all the time. It’s the one aspect of science we can […]
Modeling Magic
Original Learning Techniques Modeling is one of the cornerstones of NLP. It was how NLP was “invented.” (Or discovered or stolen…). Modeling is essentially how humans learn. Unfortunately, the way it’s taught in NLP seminars is a not quite as helpful as it could be. In this post we’ll explain why, and then develop a […]
The Impossibility Of Non Selfishness
A Useful Model This post will end with a suggestion to be considered. A model through which to observe the world and your own behaviors within it. For some, this suggestion will be rejected out of hand. For others, this suggestion will allow one to make sense of everything. A internal feeling of the pieces […]
The Myth Of Complacency
Why Risk And Uncertainty Is Scary We humans don’t like doing new things. Our brains very much like to settle into as many auto pilot situations as we can. Much of our thinking patterns and collections of biases evolved to cut down on thinking energy. Because our brains are a pretty expensive organ (operational calories […]
The Myth Of One Weird Trick
The Search For Shortcuts and Secrets There is a very common idea in self-help areas. Even one of the most successful and widely read book and widely seen movie had the same name as this idea. “The Secret” was titled “the secret” because this is what we often seek. We want something, but we can’t […]
Belief Change
What Beliefs Are And How To Change Them This will be an ambitious post. We will endeavor to find out what beliefs are. Once we understand what they are, we will start to understand some ways to change them. We will be doing this from a purely biological, scientific standpoint. We will not rely on […]
Why Money Is So Difficult
Uncovering The Instinctive Truth About Money Everybody wants more money. Rich people want more money. Poor people want more money. You want more money. I want more money. No matter who is asked the question, everybody responds that they would like more money. When they are asked how much, most people, regardless of age or […]
How To Master The Game Of Life
There’s always been a huge running debate about the makeup of man. Some say that we are born as blank slates, and are incredible learning machines. Some say that we are filled with ancient instincts that drive our behavior. But William James, an old philosopher, said we are both. Meaning we have tons of instincts […]
Meeting Girls Is Like Solving Math Problems
I remember once (many, many moons ago) I was on my way to the study hall in the dorm I was living in. I was carrying a big math book, and I passed by one of my buddies. “Going to practice some math?” He asked. I thought that strange, because up until then, I figured […]
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