One of the biggest secrets of life is that we all have the same fears inside our heads. Dale Carnegie discovered a long, long time ago that public speaking was the quickest way to self confidence in social situations. Before he wrote his famous book, “How To Win Friends and Influence People,” he’d organized a […]
Talk To Her Like A Buddy And She’s Yours
Getting girls to like you is a strange thing. It’s easy to understand things on a structural, “objective” level. Meaning you read about some guy’s problem as posted on some forum, and everybody involved knows what he did wrong, knows what he should have said or done, etc. But when you’re in the field, in […]
Unleash Your Magical Powers
I used to have this buddy in high school. All through the first two years ( went to a three year high school) he had this HUGE crush on this girl, but never said anything. Finally, there was this party (we didn’t start going to parties until our third year) and the two of them […]
Make This World Your World
I’m sure you know that when you approach a girl, your mindset is going to have a huge impact, much more so than anything else. Otherwise, all those guys you’ve heard about (and maybe know about) that have zero cash, live in their cars and dress like a flood victim can consistently pull gorgeous women. […]
Become a Shaper Of Reality
Once upon a time there was this group of scientists. These were different from the scientists I talked about in yesterday’s email, but they had a similar problem. Yesterday’s problem was understanding how something worked. How reality was actually unfolding itself. Today’s story is about how these scientists had a pretty good idea of what […]
Magnetic Creation Exercise
This is a great exercise that can build up significant confidence as well as make approaching women a lot easier. It’s not easy, and it can be pretty hair raising, but once you go through it a couple of times, you’ll be addicted to the emotional pleasure it will deliver. It requires that you’re sitting […]
You Can Do What Einstein Couldn’t
Sometimes reality can be incredibly confusing, and the models we construct to describe it don’t work on so well. If our models, or our maps of the world fail us, we tend to blame reality, rather than re-configuring our maps. One of my favorite stories of physics is “black body radiation,” which gave rise to […]
The Secret Paradox Of Magnetic Seduction
The other day I saw this girl who reminded me of one of my “better,” or more successful pick up experiences I was in a kind of “mood’ where I felt comfortable, a bit cocky, friendly, and really didn’t give a rip. I’m sure you know the feeling. Maybe you’re hanging out with your good […]
How We Were Frozen By False Fear
Long, long time ago, me and a buddy of mine were hanging out at his parent’s house. They were out of town, so we had the place to ourselves. It was a dark and windy night, and there were some houses being built nearby his place. Being kids (we were in high school) we decided […]
How To Develop The Natural Mindset
When you’re walking up that cute girl, what’s going through your mind? If you are a true natural, you may be thinking something like, “Hmm, this oughta be fun,” or “I wonder if her personality is as cute as her face,” or “If she’s lucky, I might ask for her number.” But most of us […]
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